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Patty_Fleur
03/12/23 5:29:03 PM
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Had a really good thing going on with a girl. Awesome dates. Great communication. Then it's it like all the sudden I get ghosted. It hurts man. Really bad. Haven't heard from her since Wednesday. I've sent two text since her last one but I'm just done.

God damn. I never knew I was weak like this.
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Irony
03/12/23 5:29:39 PM
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Ok

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faizan_faizan
03/12/23 5:33:19 PM
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Good, now you can find someone who won't have communication issues.

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Patty_Fleur
03/12/23 5:34:27 PM
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I'm totally find with ending the relationship but the fact I don't get any message or closure hurts. Like I'm really not worth that? You send one message and it's done. To say nothing though is cruel.
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Patty_Fleur
03/12/23 5:45:43 PM
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Heartomaton
03/12/23 5:52:50 PM
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Never stops hurting. Ghosting is scumbag behavior.

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FigureOfSpeech
03/12/23 5:54:38 PM
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just keep texting "pls respond" until she does. That works 200% of the time
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Michael_Booth
03/12/23 6:02:42 PM
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Don't do anything rash... She might have just lost her phone....
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Riev
03/12/23 6:04:04 PM
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I have this guy tagged as "cheats on his girlfriend" btw
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toreysback
03/12/23 6:05:35 PM
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i'd be worried if she was ok

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Patty_Fleur
03/12/23 6:11:17 PM
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Michael_Booth posted...
Don't do anything rash... She might have just lost her phone....

I considered that. I checked Facebook and she posted videos with her family not too long ago.

That's when I decided I was done. Its a choice not to message me. Literally no indication it would go down like this. I could see us not working out but to end it without responding? Painful.

Even if she responds to me tomorrow or the next day, I need to be done with it.
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Sputnik1337
03/12/23 6:12:28 PM
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just block her

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FigureOfSpeech
03/12/23 6:13:24 PM
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Patty_Fleur posted...
I considered that. I checked Facebook and she posted videos with her family not too long ago.

That's when I decided I was done. Its a choice not to message me. Literally no indication it would go down like this. I could see us not working out but to end it without responding? Painful.

Even if she responds to me tomorrow or the next day, I need to be done with it.

she could be going through something that she's struggling with how to tell you about.
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Patty_Fleur
03/12/23 6:14:16 PM
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Sputnik1337 posted...
just block her

I still like her.
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Tryin2GetDaPipe
03/12/23 6:24:53 PM
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if she met your parents then you should at least know where she lives, go there and talk to them face to face. text/phone calls are just lame

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roos1046_Reborn
03/12/23 6:26:31 PM
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is TC pretending to have a girlfriend part of his current gimmick?

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Patty_Fleur
03/12/23 6:29:21 PM
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roos1046_Reborn posted...
is TC pretending to have a girlfriend part of his current gimmick?

Bruh. I'm 32. Turning 33 next month. I'm done with the gimmicks.

I literally have no one else to talk about this shit with it. My parents frequently ask about her and people at church today asked about her and my co-workers always want updates on my relationship. It's fucking embarrassing to tell them it ended this way. Next week I'm going to have to though.
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Jiek_Fafn
03/12/23 6:29:34 PM
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I dont understand everyone's need for closure. Why do you feel this would help you feel better?

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-_rustykranz_-
03/12/23 6:30:09 PM
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toreysback posted...
i'd be worried if she was ok
This

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Cocytus
03/12/23 6:30:09 PM
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What was her name? Got a pic?

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Super_Slash
03/12/23 6:36:50 PM
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This is one reason dating is largely shit, and one of the only times I think "let it happen naturally" is preferable advice. The dating scene in general is stupid since it's largely about playing arbitrary social games to impress the person (which can be dependent on their culture to begin with). Then they can just ghost you at any time to move onto the next person. It's like a literal contest.
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Patty_Fleur
03/12/23 6:41:48 PM
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Cocytus posted...
What was her name? Got a pic?

It's starts with a M. I have many pics but I'm not showing. Infact, her last message had a picture.
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Cocytus
03/12/23 7:56:13 PM
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Patty_Fleur posted...
It's starts with a M. I have many pics but I'm not showing. Infact, her last message had a picture.
Why not? We don't truly gaf.

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R1masher
03/12/23 7:59:08 PM
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Did you pray on it?

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AloneIBreak
03/12/23 8:01:22 PM
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If she doesn't reply to you after a few days send her one last text that says, "Now listen here you crone"

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rexcrk
03/12/23 8:34:16 PM
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God I hate when girls do that shit. I dont think they realize how much it messes people up. (Or, really, Im just not emotionally stable enough to handle it, so thats really mostly on me )

But still it definitely hurts more than having someone be up front. You tell me I dont want to be with you / talk to you anymore youll never hear from me again.


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Irony
03/12/23 8:37:13 PM
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KanWan posted...
Send her Kazs phantom limb speech from MGSV tbh

like why are we even here? Just to suffer?
https://youtu.be/0hS0Xotr5hM

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SweetNut_Farm
03/12/23 10:27:03 PM
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Can you call her or go over to her place and just tell her you want to talk?

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Patty_Fleur
03/12/23 10:30:30 PM
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SweetNut_Farm posted...
Can you call her or go over to her place and just tell her you want to talk?

No. I'm not calling her and she lives wit her parents. I've picked her up a few times but never been in her house.
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well-excuse-me
03/12/23 10:35:41 PM
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that's pretty messed up. I recommend not acting like she exists unless she contacts you. If she doesn't, you dodged a bullet. It'll be hard to actually do that of course, but in the end it's for the best
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Stallion_Prime
03/12/23 10:35:56 PM
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some women are straight up cowards when it comes to this kinda shit. its just how it is

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tripleh213
03/12/23 10:40:19 PM
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Ghosting is the worst thing ever

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Patty_Fleur
03/12/23 10:43:36 PM
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well-excuse-me posted...
that's pretty messed up. I recommend not acting like she exists unless she contacts you. If she doesn't, you dodged a bullet. It'll be hard to actually do that of course, but in the end it's for the best

That's my plan. I really should show you guys some of our conversations so yall can understand why I'm so confused and hurt. Like if she really has ghosted me she's a fucking sociopath.
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TimeCrisis
03/12/23 10:44:43 PM
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lets see her pic then

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well-excuse-me
03/12/23 10:59:41 PM
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jesus it's that simple? social media was such a mistake
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DCinGA
03/13/23 9:29:43 AM
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Sorry you're going through this TC.

There are a lot of cowards out there that do this...avoiding responsibility and lacking human decency.

Some of you should stop making excuses for her behavior...saying men do not handle rejection well. That goes for women as well. I've rejected some during my recent dating phase...the prettier they think they are, the nastier they become.

There's someone out there to treat you like you deserve TC, hang in there

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Supersex420
03/13/23 9:33:22 AM
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Sorry that sucks. The thing about dating is it's almost less secure than a job, another thing where you have to deal with people

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Cocytus
03/13/23 1:47:33 PM
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TimeCrisis posted...
lets see her pic then


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Patty_Fleur
03/14/23 2:29:45 PM
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Update:

I'm no longer devastated. I'm kind of over it already. Looking for another girl.
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