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toreysback
03/15/23 1:40:36 PM
#102:


she's a pirate!

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DoctorPiranha3
03/15/23 1:41:38 PM
#103:


Itachi157 posted...
I dont know why people always say stuff like this in these topics. TC is just venting on something that is stressing him out. If he was actually needy and insecure hed be blowing up her phone with texts all week. Youre allowed to have thoughts and discuss them with people, its actions that matter.
I mean I get that, but girls flake, man. It's what they do. Can be hot one day and ice cold the next. Nature of the beast.
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NoxObscuras
03/15/23 1:42:13 PM
#104:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

You say that we're overreacting by telling him to end it, but you're essentially saying the same thing, just with more words.

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well-excuse-me
03/15/23 1:58:35 PM
#105:


Cleo_II posted...
I wouldnt remember their number either but this was in the context of having SM like this girl does, since she was posting on Sunday. She could have logged on to her friends account to message him or on a computer. I dont use much SM myself but she does. And if I were in that kind of situation I know Id do everything I could to reach someone I cared about to let them know.
She could make a SM post mentioning him, too, if she gaf.

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Bad take
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Patty_Fleur
03/15/23 1:59:55 PM
#106:


I pretty much sent a text saying I hope she's OK and its nice to hear from her. I haven't heard back yet but I'll keep yall updated. She would normally text me early in the morning or in the evening/night cause if work schedules.

I'm leaning more towards this is done though. After a week of not hearing from her I no longer idolize her. Which I should have never done in the first place.
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well-excuse-me
03/15/23 2:09:20 PM
#107:


This is a valuable lesson to learn. I hope you did indeed learn it...lol
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bloodydeath0
03/15/23 2:09:39 PM
#108:


sounds like you're handling this very well and rationally tbh. it happens to everyone and it fuckin sucks. it's an awful feeling and it can feel like it'll be impossible to recover. but you will, and for lack of a better phrase, it's just part of the process. learning experience for everyone. build yourself a strong emotional foundation and sense of self worth.

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KINDERFELD
03/15/23 2:44:52 PM
#110:


These days you gotta be a semi-mental-health-therspist when dating. Most folks are walking around with anxiety depression and anger thanks to a year of shutdown and panicking from covid.

Also, a lot of folks believe their diagnosis is an excuse for being a terrible and shitty person when in fact, they are still 100% responsible for their actions and behaviors.

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Will_VIIII
03/15/23 2:47:11 PM
#111:


KINDERFELD posted...
These days you gotta be a semi-mental-health-therspist when dating. Most folks are walking around with anxiety depression and anger thanks to a year of shutdown and panicking from covid.

Also, a lot of folks believe their diagnosis is an excuse for being a terrible and shitty person when in fact, they are still 100% responsible for their actions and behaviors.

what kinda tin foil hat shit is this

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KINDERFELD
03/15/23 2:50:14 PM
#112:


Will_VIIII posted...
what kinda tin foil hat shit is this

Its sad when something that's so basic and common sense gets called "tin foil hat shit", but alas, this is CE.

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manhookcardoor
03/15/23 2:51:14 PM
#113:


Woah there, bud! Dont have a melty.

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Will_VIIII
03/15/23 2:59:17 PM
#114:


KINDERFELD posted...
Its sad when something that's so basic and common sense gets called "tin foil hat shit", but alas, this is CE.

Aren't you an antivaxxer?

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well-excuse-me
03/15/23 3:14:45 PM
#115:


Will_VIIII posted...
Aren't you an antivaxxer?
Lol
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TaylorHeinicke
03/15/23 3:38:01 PM
#116:


Patty_Fleur posted...
After a week of not hearing from her I no longer idolize her. Which I should have never done in the first place.
Good on you. If she replies again, roll with it. But don't waste any more effort thinking about or double-texting her.

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Patty_Fleur
03/15/23 8:27:28 PM
#118:


Just tag me as a fucking simp. I'm going to respond

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manhookcardoor
03/15/23 8:29:08 PM
#119:


"How are you?"
youre not the first choice

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Patty_Fleur
03/15/23 8:30:38 PM
#120:


manhookcardoor posted...
"How are you?"
youre not the first choice

Possibly. But she literally meal preped lunch for me for the entire week once.
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well-excuse-me
03/15/23 8:35:00 PM
#121:


Eesh
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rexcrk
03/15/23 9:08:00 PM
#122:




Someone stole my phone is code for Ive been talking to someone better




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Sariana21
03/15/23 9:09:00 PM
#123:


You seem very nice. I hope things work out for you - whatever that may mean for you.

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TheGoldenEel
03/15/23 9:10:48 PM
#125:


Yeah the nice to hear from you was a little much dude

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Sonic_Cannon
03/15/23 9:19:47 PM
#126:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

This, basically. I would expect a lot more proactive conversation after such a long time with no contact. You need something live - whether that's a meet up in person, a phone call, whatever. You need a better way to feel this situation out.

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Patty_Fleur
03/15/23 9:30:15 PM
#127:


It is what is. Currently I have no other girls I'm talking to. I'll keep talking to this one if she talks to me but I'm not going to be hurt if it's ends cause I don't really care like I used to anymore.

I have no one else to hang out with it so why not? I have a female friend that I shared more info with and she says this girl is fake as fuck. Since I know that, I won't get hurt.
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Patty_Fleur
03/15/23 9:49:10 PM
#129:


If I was going to lie I would have said I lost my phone at the airport.

How the fuck does one's phone get stolen? I always have mine in my pocket or hand. I'm not saying it's impossible but I don't believe her.
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Patty_Fleur
03/15/23 10:02:59 PM
#131:


She's never going to find out. And if she did, I don't care.
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well-excuse-me
03/15/23 10:15:28 PM
#132:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Put it down to clean up the mess all over your hand?
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Revelation34
03/16/23 12:08:34 AM
#133:


well-excuse-me posted...

Put it down to clean up the mess all over your hand?


You only need one hand to hold a phone. You don't need to even touch the phone with the hand you're wiping with.

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shironinja
03/16/23 12:11:31 AM
#134:


I blame social media.

If people find something better or just get bored they turn the last thing they were watching off.

We dont consider each other humans anymore just temporary short-term distractions.

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_____Cait
03/16/23 12:19:31 AM
#135:


She could just be stressed and is mentally closed off right now. Having your phone stolen or lost sucks.

Talk to her and see what happened. Dont jump to conclusions.

This board is awful for dating advice, btw. Half the users are incels, the other half are pretending to be millionaires or women to get e-cred.

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Arcanine2009
03/16/23 4:07:56 AM
#137:


Patty_Fleur posted...
I pretty much sent a text saying I hope she's OK and its nice to hear from her. I haven't heard back yet but I'll keep yall updated. She would normally text me early in the morning or in the evening/night cause if work schedules.

I'm leaning more towards this is done though. After a week of not hearing from her I no longer idolize her. Which I should have never done in the first place.

Idolize? Yeah definitely shouldn't have done that. Anyway, at least you dodged a bullet dude. Definitely move on.

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Arcanine2009
03/16/23 4:11:24 AM
#138:


_____Cait posted...
She could just be stressed and is mentally closed off right now. Having your phone stolen or lost sucks.

Talk to her and see what happened. Dont jump to conclusions.

This board is awful for dating advice, btw. Half the users are incels, the other half are pretending to be millionaires or women to get e-cred.
Nah I think people were giving sound advice. He went like 5 dates with the girl and didn't hear back until a week later ( after triple replying )and she made some bs excuse about her phone being lost, but she just uploaded a video on her TikTok during the time she was ignoring him. Also how she responded kinda gives it away too.

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cuttin_in_farm
03/16/23 5:03:28 AM
#140:


Patty_Fleur posted...
And if she did, I don't care.

Patty_Fleur posted...
I'll keep talking to this one if she talks to me but I'm not going to be hurt if it's ends cause I don't really care like I used to anymore.

Patty_Fleur posted...
Just tag me as a fucking simp. I'm going to respond



I dont think youre being honest with yourself.

Patty_Fleur posted...
It is what is. Currently I have no other girls I'm talking to.

I dont see why you should talk to her just because she exists.


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God_of_6strings
03/16/23 5:07:54 AM
#141:


Patty_Fleur posted...
Update:

I'm no longer devastated. I'm kind of over it already. Looking for another girl.
This feeling comes and goes. Maybe you had a good day on this day, but next time you're bored, your mind will go back to her. This will keep happening until you find your next crush.
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tripleh213
03/17/23 11:49:51 AM
#143:


lol this topic

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Patty_Fleur
03/17/23 2:26:46 PM
#144:


Most likely I'm ending this tonight
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MedeaLysistrata
03/17/23 2:31:23 PM
#145:


Patty_Fleur posted...
Most likely I'm ending this tonight
I get it, the 500 topic is tempting.

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Revelation34
03/19/23 10:59:47 AM
#147:


Patty_Fleur posted...
Most likely I'm ending this tonight


What's the update?

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Patty_Fleur
03/19/23 12:10:50 PM
#148:


Revelation34 posted...
What's the update?

So she texted me Thursday at night. There was turmoil at her job and lots of management was fired. So I didn't think it was a good time to end it and I still had hope to be honest.

On Friday morning i texted her "good morning. Happy st Patrick's day." I haven't heard from her. Nothing yesterday. Nothing today so far. I'm ending this tonight. I got my goodbye text already planned. I don't ghost people.
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CellBlock7
03/19/23 12:16:44 PM
#149:


Did you ever sleep with her (Im not reading this entire thread to find out)? If so, it just means your dick game was weak and she deserves better.

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Patty_Fleur
03/19/23 12:18:05 PM
#150:


CellBlock7 posted...
Did you ever sleep with her (Im not reading this entire thread to find out)? If so, it just means your dick game was weak and she deserves better.

No. We are both Christian and was waiting for marriage.
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