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Unknown781
03/14/23 2:32:43 PM
#51:


Patty_Fleur posted...
I still like her.
Move on, plenty of other girls out there. She isn't the one.
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Patty_Fleur
03/14/23 2:45:13 PM
#53:


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This. I honestly think she was a psychopath or sociopath. Whatever the proper term is. The signs were there I'm just too stupid to notice. My friends did and I ignored them.

The ghosting is practically a mercy.
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TaylorHeinicke
03/14/23 2:55:05 PM
#54:


pics

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Unknown781
03/14/23 3:01:31 PM
#55:


TaylorHeinicke posted...
pics
Here ya go

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/4/7/AARc5mAAERLj.jpg

@TaylorHeinicke
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Patty_Fleur
03/14/23 3:06:44 PM
#56:


She actually is a bigger white girl. But I'm not posting her picture. Or her tiktok. I don't trust you guys not to harass her or say mean things.
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TaylorHeinicke
03/14/23 3:19:03 PM
#57:


Unknown781 posted...
Here ya go

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/4/7/AARc5mAAERLj.jpg

TaylorHeinicke
damn TC missed out

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Patty_Fleur
03/15/23 8:17:49 AM
#58:


Uh...

She texted me this morning. Not sure how to respond or if I belive her. She posted on tiktok and Facebook on Sunday. However, she hasn't lied to me about anything (I know of at least) before.

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toreysback
03/15/23 8:25:09 AM
#59:


she goes to airports?

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SweetNut_Farm
03/15/23 8:31:31 AM
#60:


Gotta have trust in order to have a relationship. If you don't trust or believe her just walk away or you will always question everything she says and will always be waiting for her to ghost you again. Looks like the ball is in your court.

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Patty_Fleur
03/15/23 8:34:32 AM
#61:


toreysback posted...
she goes to airports?

Yes. She was on a business trip from March 6th to 12th (she claims). Her going on the trip is definitely true but her return time is questionable. I can confirm she was back by at least Sunday based on the Facebook and tiktok post. Also, she had some kind of phone by then.
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ANort175
03/15/23 8:47:24 AM
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She probably looked up your post history on this site and decided to dodge a bullet(in more ways than one).

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FelineCyborg
03/15/23 8:53:03 AM
#63:


fuck her then ghost her for a month and say you lost your phone

that'll learn her! that'll learn her good *rubs hands together while cackling maniacally *

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Master_Kazuya
03/15/23 8:54:02 AM
#64:


Irony posted...
Ok

I lold

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Ragtag28
03/15/23 8:57:36 AM
#65:


Tryin2GetDaPipe posted...
if she met your parents then you should at least know where she lives, go there and talk to them face to face. text/phone calls are just lame
Don't ever do this. Things can go south very quickly. Always call before you show up to someone's home. Especially someone you don't know that well. Very dangerous advice.

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Ragtag28
03/15/23 9:00:13 AM
#66:


Cocytus posted...
Why not? We don't truly gaf.
Stop being creepy dude.

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manhookcardoor
03/15/23 9:00:49 AM
#67:


Her first choice probably cashed out on her or she's just lonely and holding out for "someone better". Break up with her.


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SweetNut_Farm
03/15/23 9:01:26 AM
#68:


If you decide you no longer want a relationship with her, tell her why. Don't ghost her. Pay backs are never a good thing. Then you can walk with your head high.

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DoctorPiranha3
03/15/23 9:06:56 AM
#69:


Needy and insecure, good job TC
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FelineCyborg
03/15/23 9:08:39 AM
#70:


SweetNut_Farm posted...
If you decide you no longer want a relationship with her, tell her why. Don't ghost her. Pay backs are never a good thing. Then you can walk with your head high.

*poofs in on tcs shoulder in a litte devil outfit*

get your other head high! fuck her! fuck her in the ass! then ghost the shit out of her! heheheheh

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Kim_Seong-a
03/15/23 9:09:38 AM
#71:


Nah move on. No contact. She's gonna try and rope you into some dumb bullshit mind games and this "oh I lost my phone sorry I had no other way of contacting you in a week" is just the tip of the ice berg.

Block her number, block her social media, and if friends ask what happened just shrug and say "dumb bitch ghosted me"

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Patty_Fleur
03/15/23 9:11:48 AM
#72:


FelineCyborg posted...
*poofs in on tcs shoulder in a litte devil outfit*

get your other head high! fuck her! fuck her in the ass! then ghost the shit out of her! heheheheh

So actually we are not having or had sex. We had this discussion and we will only do it of we marry each other.

It's actually one if the things I really like about her. No pressure around that topic.
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FelineCyborg
03/15/23 9:16:58 AM
#73:


well that's no fun.

*poofs out*

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Blue_Thunder
03/15/23 9:24:52 AM
#74:


Patty_Fleur posted...
She posted on tiktok and Facebook on Sunday.

And you didn't try contacting her on those platforms?

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Patty_Fleur
03/15/23 9:42:19 AM
#76:


Blue_Thunder posted...
And you didn't try contacting her on those platforms?

No. I tried to think how a woman might feel. If I ghosted someone, I wouldn't want them to reach out on various platforms cause that would seem creepy and I'd feel unsafe.

I'm not friends with her on Facebook and I only know her tiktok cause I shared funny/relatable tiktoks with her. I was just under the assumption she ghosted me which she did for pretty much exactly a week.
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ALIEN_WORK2HOP
03/15/23 9:43:50 AM
#77:


only people with a really shitty character ghost people. No loss here and you probably dodged a bullet tc.

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Psyloshsr
03/15/23 9:48:36 AM
#78:


If you weren't even facebook friends then you weren't really dating. Drop it and move on.

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TaylorHeinicke
03/15/23 10:10:53 AM
#79:


Patty_Fleur posted...
Uh...

She texted me this morning. Not sure how to respond or if I belive her. She posted on tiktok and Facebook on Sunday. However, she hasn't lied to me about anything (I know of at least) before.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/0/6/AATwivAAER86.jpg

Patty_Fleur posted...
I checked Facebook and she posted videos with her family not too long ago.
something doesn't add up jim.

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Sariana21
03/15/23 10:24:09 AM
#80:


Just reply Glad youre okay and leave it at that. She could have made those other posts from a computer or someone elses phone or whatever, which obviously isnt an option for texts.

Nothing seems weird to me here if you were pretty casual.

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Patty_Fleur
03/15/23 10:29:52 AM
#81:


I know she has an apple watch. I find it hard to believe her phone and watch were stolen. She only mentioned the phone. You can text from an apple watch right?
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well-excuse-me
03/15/23 10:30:27 AM
#82:


Patty_Fleur posted...
Uh...

She texted me this morning. Not sure how to respond or if I belive her. She posted on tiktok and Facebook on Sunday. However, she hasn't lied to me about anything (I know of at least) before.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/0/6/AATwivAAER86.jpg
Bogus. Never talk to her again
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SweetNut_Farm
03/15/23 10:57:57 AM
#83:


Maybe you need to see her face to face and talk. And going over to meet the family is a good thing. See how they all are and what she doesn't want them to say in front of you.

This just all sounds off somehow.

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NoxObscuras
03/15/23 11:25:53 AM
#84:


How many dates have you two been on at this point TC?

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Patty_Fleur
03/15/23 11:43:14 AM
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5
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VeggetaX
03/15/23 11:50:46 AM
#86:


At least you didn't find out that your favorite streamer girl has a boyfriend.

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Ragtag28
03/15/23 11:52:38 AM
#87:


TaylorHeinicke posted...
something doesn't add up jim.
Simple answer: she got bored of him or saw a trait in you that she considered a red flag. Complicated answer: she was expecting something from you that she lacks. Its either that or shes extremely judgmental and cowardly.

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Ragtag28
03/15/23 11:54:53 AM
#88:


SweetNut_Farm posted...
Maybe you need to see her face to face and talk. And going over to meet the family is a good thing. See how they all are and what she doesn't want them to say in front of you.

This just all sounds off somehow.
If she ghost you, its a good indicator that she doesn't want to be involved with you anymore. Smart descision is to move on find someone else. Trying to push further will make things worse

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cuttin_in_farm
03/15/23 11:58:23 AM
#89:


In general, never believe people who decide on a whim to stop replying to simple questions like how are you?

If they come back without even apologizing when you expressed concern, but instead give a lame excuse without even attempting to start a conversation?

Well

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/6/5/5/AAZ897AAEEK3.jpg

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GeraldDarko
03/15/23 11:59:57 AM
#90:


5 dates
Could be something happened in her life, and she just doesn't feel comfortable enough to discuss it with you. If you think she's playing you, bail. If you think something came up, maybe see how things go. Tough to say what's going on. Even tougher when communicated over a message board. Best thing is to just use your intuition.


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NoxObscuras
03/15/23 12:04:12 PM
#91:


Patty_Fleur posted...
5
Damn. Ghosting after 5 dates is some major disrespect.

I'm sure it hurts, but stick to your decision to move on. Her excuse of her phone being stolen doesn't hold up. And you deserve someone that respects you enough to be honest with you.

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TurtleInFreedom
03/15/23 12:05:58 PM
#92:


How old are you? Sometimes things happen in life for someone that disallows him or her to open up to someone fully about it. I think for now giving her space is the best. If she was really sincere about you she will process her actions and reach out to you when the time is right for her.

You on the other hand probably won't help the situation if you put pressure on her. Don't be infatuated with your own uncertainty. Lots of unpredictable things happen in life.

Meanwhile here's a poem to comfort your anguish:

Never give all the heart, for love
Will hardly seem worth thinking of
To passionate women if it seem
Certain, and they never dream
That it fades out from kiss to kiss;
For everything thats lovely is
But a brief, dreamy, kind delight.
O never give the heart outright,
For they, for all smooth lips can say,
Have given their hearts up to the play.
And who could play it well enough
If deaf and dumb and blind with love?
He that made this knows all the cost,
For he gave all his heart and lost.

-W. B. Yeats
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rexcrk
03/15/23 12:36:24 PM
#93:


cuttin_in_farm posted...
In general, never believe people who decide on a whim to stop replying to simple questions like how are you?

If they come back without even apologizing when you expressed concern, but instead give a lame excuse without even attempting to start a conversation?

Well

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/6/5/5/AAZ897AAEEK3.jpg


So sick of seeing this picture of me tbh

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Sariana21
03/15/23 12:47:35 PM
#94:


Patty_Fleur posted...
I know she has an apple watch. I find it hard to believe her phone and watch were stolen. She only mentioned the phone. You can text from an apple watch right?
I dont have an Apple Watch, but dont they just act as a way to connect with the phone? They dont have those capabilities on their own, do they? If the phone is unavailable, then the watch wont work either? But I dont really know.

I stand by my previous post - text Glad youre okay and put the ball back in her court. And be ready to move on, as others have said.

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Cleo_II
03/15/23 12:57:06 PM
#95:


Move on. Someone who cares about you doesnt take a week to respond. Losing phone is a dumb excuse in the world of social media. If it were me and I liked someone and my phone was actually stolen, I would have asked a friend to let me borrow their phone immediately. Or logged into my computer to ping you on SM. Shes full of shit.
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Sariana21
03/15/23 1:00:08 PM
#96:


Cleo_II posted...
Move on. Someone who cares about you doesnt take a week to respond. Losing phone is a dumb excuse in the world of social media. If it were me and I liked someone and my phone was actually stolen, I would have asked a friend to let me borrow their phone immediately. Or logged into my computer to ping you on SM. Shes full of shit.
If I lost my phone, I wouldnt have anyones phone number, especially someone I had met only recently. But Im old, and Im not on social media.

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Cleo_II
03/15/23 1:10:47 PM
#97:


Sariana21 posted...
If I lost my phone, I wouldnt have anyones phone number, especially someone I had met only recently. But Im old, and Im not on social media.
I wouldnt remember their number either but this was in the context of having SM like this girl does, since she was posting on Sunday. She could have logged on to her friends account to message him or on a computer. I dont use much SM myself but she does. And if I were in that kind of situation I know Id do everything I could to reach someone I cared about to let them know.
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Will_VIIII
03/15/23 1:34:22 PM
#99:


Maybe she got wind of his political leanings

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