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pjbasis
08/03/11 8:06:00 AM
#251:


I think he's saying he shouldn't have a problem in the first place.
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GenesisSaga
08/03/11 8:15:00 AM
#252:


pjbasis posted...
I think he's saying he shouldn't have a problem in the first place.

Well that's between him and his boss's daughter whether he deserves to have a problem in the first place and personally I couldn't care less.

My issue is that Bell acknowledges the problem and dealt with it accordingly and now people are calling him juvenile names for it for completely subjective reasons such as "I don't like people like that".

Either way, I've invested far too much time in this topic already and since it's beginning to bore me I do not wish to spare anymore.

Peace, I'm out!

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KingButz
08/03/11 8:24:00 AM
#253:


Gatarix posted...
If one of my co-workers had an issue with me, I would much rather have him talk to me personally first, instead of having him badmouth me to my boss behind my back and possibly get me in trouble without even giving me a chance to fix the issue myself.

Now, if someone is refusing to pull their weight around the office to a big enough extent that it's hurting office productivity, and you talk to him about it and he refuses to change, I think going to the boss is fair.


This is entirely dependent on the issue/situation, though. If you have this way of talking that I find annoying, I will talk to you about it, as that is my business. I would expect the same. If you are having problems with policy, etc., that's a different matter. If I suspect you will listen to me, I will probably talk to you about it.

However, if I observe a coworker with whom I have a poor or non-existent relationship, I will most likely talk to the boss, as the coworker will take whatever the boss has to say better than I will. Most companies have talking to the boss as the policy, because most people don't take criticism well from their equals or subordinates.

I do agree, that in some situations it is appropriate to confront a co-worker. But I think Sbell made the better choice in his case.

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Vlado
08/03/11 8:58:00 AM
#254:


This particular issue is not of that much interest to me in comparison to how things should be in principle, namely:

1. Results (pretty objective term) should be favoured by the management over "hard work" (pretty subjective one).
2. Badmouthing your peer before the boss because you think "they don't work hard enough" is bad, period. You're certainly not in position to say who works hard enough and who doesn't, unless you are the manager and it's actually your job to make such assessments.

I don't know how to put it more simply.

It truly baffles me that anyone would disagree with these two.



If you wanna talk about the case at hand, if we have to be rational about it, I think SBell's action was wrong, aside from point 2, also because the average boss is more likely to get annoyed at him for badmouthing his kid than actually do something about the supposed issue (much less promote SBell for being such a great employee). And the hypocrisy was already pointed out, as well.

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SBell0105
08/03/11 9:11:00 AM
#255:


1. Results are certainly important in the grand scheme of things. In my situation there are No results. There is also no work.

2. Badmouthing a peer for thinking they "don't work hard enough" is certainly a scummy thing to do. Who am I to say they aren't working "hard enough". In my situation I am bad mouthing the employee for not only NOT working but while she is NOT working she is also refusing to assist the rest of the office that IS working with simple tasks like fielding phone calls.


I don't know how to put it more simply.

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Gatarix
08/03/11 9:13:00 AM
#256:


I'm not really supporting SBell here because I'm not clear on whether he talked to her directly or not. I wasn't sure whether he meant "I talked to her and it didn't do any good" or "Even if I had talked to her, it wouldn't have done any good." If the former, then yeah, talking to the boss was the right thing to do IMO. If not, then not.


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ExThaNemesis
08/03/11 9:15:00 AM
#257:


256 posts in this topic.

Need... contest... now...

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SBell0105
08/03/11 9:21:00 AM
#258:


From: Gatarix | #256
I'm not really supporting SBell here because I'm not clear on whether he talked to her directly or not. I wasn't sure whether he meant "I talked to her and it didn't do any good" or "Even if I had talked to her, it wouldn't have done any good." If the former, then yeah, talking to the boss was the right thing to do IMO. If not, then not.




I spoke to her about helping out the office and she's copped an attitude and shrugged it off. Speaking to her about work ethic is like speaking to Vlado about anything. Pointless.

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The Mana Sword
08/03/11 9:23:00 AM
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ExThaNemesis posted...
256 posts in this topic.

Need... contest... now...


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pjbasis
08/03/11 9:39:00 AM
#260:


KingButz posted...
Vlado posted...
1. Results (pretty objective term) should be favoured by the management over "hard work" (pretty subjective one).

It stands to reason that(in almost all scenarios) if a certain amount of result is being acheived by X quantity of work, a greater amount of result may be produced by 2X or 3X quantity of work.

If your boss knows that employees A and B are producing X quantity of result when they are capable of producing 2X quantity of result at no greater labor cost, he would replace A and B by hiring employee C who will produce 2X quantity of result and save on his labor costs.


Sorry to butt in but there's a flaw in logic here.

The X is referring to one person's amount of work over a certain amount of time. Person C's X might not be the same as Person A or B.

If I do 10 units of work in 2 hours and someone does 8 units in a lot longer time, I'm still better off.
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KingButz
08/03/11 9:42:00 AM
#261:


Vlado posted...
1. Results (pretty objective term) should be favoured by the management over "hard work" (pretty subjective one).

It stands to reason that(in almost all scenarios) if a certain amount of result is being acheived by X quantity of work, a greater amount of result may be produced by 2X or 3X quantity of work.

If your boss knows that employees A and B are producing Y quantity of result when they are capable of producing 2Y quantity of result at no greater labor cost, he would replace A and B by hiring employee C who will produce 2Y quantity of result and save on his labor costs.

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KingButz
08/03/11 9:44:00 AM
#262:


I edited the post as it was confusing, sorry. I changed the X's in the second sentence to Y's.

Employee C is just as capable as A or B, just not lazy.

X=time spent working

Y=result from working

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KingButz
08/03/11 9:47:00 AM
#263:


Oh geez the more i read this the more I realized I didn't express myself very well.

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pjbasis
08/03/11 9:50:00 AM
#264:


Yeah man...when you have two variables there's no way to compare them.

If one guy does X and another guy does 100Y it still doesn't provide any insight. Y could be much smaller than X!
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KingButz
08/03/11 9:59:00 AM
#265:


Let me try again.

Ignoring the law of diminishing marginal returns, let's suppose your employees A and B can produce 100 units of output from working 4 hours, but can produce 200 units when working 8 hours. The employees are compensated $400/day. Both employees are lazy and will work for 4 hours each, producing 200 units between them.

It makes sense to replace those 2 employees with employee C who can can also produce 100 units of output from working 4 hours or 200 units when working 8 hours. He chooses to work 8 hours, and now the employer can compensate him up to $799.99/day, maintain the same level of output, and still save on labor costs. Ideally he will compensate the employee $400 and save $400 each day.

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pjbasis
08/03/11 10:03:00 AM
#266:


Sure that works with those numbers.

Not really much of a point though. If you switch it so that employee A and B can produce 1000 units of output from even 3 hours it's still better to go that route right? In the end it comes down to results. Yeah you're better off finding a C that can do 1000 but will work 8, but sometimes the choices aren't that nice.
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KingButz
08/03/11 10:07:00 AM
#267:


True not all situations are that ideal, but if I had an employee who finished his work after 2 hours, I would send him home after 2 hours. No point in keeping him around the office if he's not working.

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pjbasis
08/03/11 10:14:00 AM
#268:


Makes sense, but generally the thing with lazy people is that those 2 hours of labor are actually going to be spread out over 8 hours.

Lazy people don't like to work for very long at one time! Like this homework I've been "working on" for 6 hours. Of course, my output is pretty measly but that's besides the point.
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Highwind89
08/03/11 10:15:00 AM
#269:


This topic would have been better if you meant Advanced Dungeons and Dragons.
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SBell0105
08/03/11 10:45:00 AM
#270:


Well i did give fair warning in my opening Sentence.

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Vlado
08/03/11 11:08:00 AM
#271:


SBell0105 posted...
1. Results are certainly important in the grand scheme of things. In my situation there are No results. There is also no work.

2. Badmouthing a peer for thinking they "don't work hard enough" is certainly a scummy thing to do. Who am I to say they aren't working "hard enough". In my situation I am bad mouthing the employee for not only NOT working but while she is NOT working she is also refusing to assist the rest of the office that IS working with simple tasks like fielding phone calls.


Well, so long as we agree on that, I guess we have more common ground than it initially seemed.

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Vlado
08/03/11 11:09:00 AM
#272:


SBell0105 posted...
I spoke to her about helping out the office and she's copped an attitude and shrugged it off. Speaking to her about work ethic is like speaking to Vlado about anything. Pointless.

...and then you had to post something insulting. -_-

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SBell0105
08/03/11 11:11:00 AM
#273:


go figure.

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SBell0105
08/03/11 11:13:00 AM
#274:


From: Vlado | #272
...and then you had to post something insulting. -_-




to be fair, Vlado, you haven't been the easiest person to reach on this matter. You've stood your ground and refused to accept that you may not be understanding THIS situation to its fullest.

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Vlado
08/03/11 11:14:00 AM
#275:


pjbasis posted...
Sure that works with those numbers.

Not really much of a point though. If you switch it so that employee A and B can produce 1000 units of output from even 3 hours it's still better to go that route right? In the end it comes down to results. Yeah you're better off finding a C that can do 1000 but will work 8, but sometimes the choices aren't that nice.


Very well said. In the real world, things are very different from the utopia King Butz described.

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Vlado
08/03/11 11:17:00 AM
#276:


SBell0105 posted...
From: Vlado | #272
...and then you had to post something insulting. -_-


to be fair, Vlado, you haven't been the easiest person to reach on this matter. You've stood your ground and refused to accept that you may not be understanding THIS situation to its fullest.


I guess you have a point because I wasn't so interested in this particular situation as in what things should be like on principle. Nevertheless, I gave my opinion of the situation in a simple enough manner in #254.

But really, no hard feelings or anything, you're a reasonable enough dude.

GenesisSaga, on the other hand, really gives me the hostile vibe in this topic.

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SBell0105
08/03/11 11:17:00 AM
#277:


And i at no point wanted to argue principle with you. We each have our own opinions as to how a business should be properly run. I don't expect either of us to bend on that.

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lardpig
08/03/11 2:01:00 PM
#279:


From: UltimaterializerX | #278
Some things at work (we'll use drug dealing or extreme sexual harassment as examples) absolutely must be brought up through the chain of command.


Neither of them are anywhere near "My co-worker plays Tetris during work hours."

Especially when the person complaining is distracted from his work far more often.

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GANON1025
08/03/11 2:06:00 PM
#280:


Ulti coming in like SBell's white knight. If Valdo or Maplejet or me or basically anyone he dislikes made this topic he would be against them.

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GANON1025
08/03/11 2:14:00 PM
#282:


Don't even begin to even start to try and trick me.

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KingButz
08/03/11 2:18:00 PM
#283:


*to

It's "to trick me."

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GaryOak151
08/03/11 2:32:00 PM
#284:


This topic is awful.

This should have been like a 15 post topic.

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SBell0105
08/03/11 2:57:00 PM
#285:


W_C, I would have given it 20ish or so and then called it quits.

Can't help how it was received.



I has White Knights!

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GaryOak151
08/03/11 3:25:00 PM
#286:


Oh i'm not taking a shot at you. I agree with you close to 100%. And you know your one of my favorite users. This is on Vlado and TimJab. Shocker!

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SBell0105
08/03/11 3:46:00 PM
#287:


and this is the problem with the internet. >_>

I know you weren't taking any shots at me :P

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GaryOak151
08/03/11 4:10:00 PM
#288:


oh

my b

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Emporer_Kazbar
08/03/11 4:21:00 PM
#289:


From: GANON1025 | #280
If Valdo or Maplejet or me or basically anyone he dislikes made this topic he would be against them.


He and Vlado seem to agree on a lot of things, actually. Just because he disagrees with him in this one topic means absolutely nothing.

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lardpig
08/03/11 4:30:00 PM
#290:


From: GaryOak151 | #286
I agree with you close to 100%.


This is far more damning for you than anything I've said.

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GaryOak151
08/03/11 5:16:00 PM
#291:


Well I wouldn't have told because it the boss's daughter and you might get bad treatment from the man in charge of your job. But i hate working with people like that. Won't pick up a hand to help you no matter how busy you are.

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SBell0105
08/04/11 9:23:00 AM
#292:


In case anyone was interested (you aren't)

She has taken off Thursday and Friday!

Happy Days are here again.

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Gatarix
08/04/11 9:27:00 AM
#293:


as opposed to the rest of the days this week lolol


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SBell0105
08/04/11 9:45:00 AM
#294:


ZING!

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