Poll of the Day > I am a loser

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How do I become a winner?


inb4getajobwelcher

It's probably too late for that.

Well you are going to school, that's a good start.

change the name
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Yellow posted...

Well you are going to school, that's a good start.

Doesn't help my case apparently.

What is a "winner" to you? A house, girlfriend? Those things come after you have money and school is a good place to start. Can't do everything at once.

Yellow posted...

What is a "winner" to you? A house, girlfriend? Those things come after you have money and school is a good place to start. Can't do everything at once.

Despite the fact that I see total degenerates with good looking girls, and have money, despite the fact that they are something I don't want to say without the mods banning me for it.

I am a loser with nothing going for me, and no life, and no amount of schooling will fix that, other than making me look more like a nerd (and not the "cool" type which is nothing more than a Hollywood fabrication).

TheWorstPoster posted...

Yellow posted...

What is a "winner" to you? A house, girlfriend? Those things come after you have money and school is a good place to start. Can't do everything at once.

Despite the fact that I see total degenerates with good looking girls, and have money, despite the fact that they are something I don't want to say without the mods banning me for it.

I am a loser with nothing going for me, and no life, and no amount of schooling will fix that, other than making me look more like a nerd (and not the "cool" type which is nothing more than a Hollywood fabrication).

I don't know any adults who think going to college makes you a nerd, so I don't think you have to worry about that part
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GhostGiblet posted...

I don't know any adults who think going to college makes you a nerd

What about those who go for STEM majors to go into a field which is a total chick-repellant (except for SJWs)?

TheWorstPoster posted...

making me look more like a nerd

It will give you a degree, which in turn, will make you more employable, which in turn, will give you more freedom in life.
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TheWorstPoster posted...

GhostGiblet posted...

I don't know any adults who think going to college makes you a nerd

What about those who go for STEM majors to go into a field which is a total chick-repellant (except for SJWs)?

That's more of a question of who you'll end up working with. Doesn't mean that people will stop talking to you once they find out you're in a STEM job. Also don't know where you got the idea that there will be a bunch of 'SJW's as the only girls, that is not accurate at all. I work at a software company and never met anyone SJW-y
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EclairReturns posted...

It will give you a degree, which in turn, will make you more employable, which in turn, will give you more freedom in life.

Or will make me a slave to whatever company I am working at, because I am too stupid and incompetent to start my own.

TheWorstPoster posted...

EclairReturns posted...

It will give you a degree, which in turn, will make you more employable, which in turn, will give you more freedom in life.

Or will make me a slave to whatever company I am working at, because I am too stupid and incompetent to start my own.

Honestly you'll be in a much better position at a lot of companies in the STEM field than other jobs you'll have. Especially a lot of tech companies with good benefits and work/life balance. Employers 'owning' you is kind of the name of the game, but it's not always that bad. Starting your own company is an unreasonably high bar to set. Very few people do that, and even fewer do it successfully. It's not all or nothing of you achieve the maximum human potential or you're a loser. You can improve yourself either way.
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GhostGiblet posted...

Honestly you'll be in a much better position at a lot of companies in the STEM field than other jobs you'll have. Especially a lot of tech companies with good benefits and work/life balance. Employers 'owning' you is kind of the name of the game, but it's not always that bad. Starting your own company is an unreasonably high bar to set. Very few people do that, and even fewer do it successfully. It's not all or nothing of you achieve the maximum human potential or you're a loser. You can improve yourself either way.

I hope so. The last thing I want is to be in a dead-end position in a nowhere job, or be laid off and replaced due to "diversity" reasons.

TheWorstPoster posted...

GhostGiblet posted...

Honestly you'll be in a much better position at a lot of companies in the STEM field than other jobs you'll have. Especially a lot of tech companies with good benefits and work/life balance. Employers 'owning' you is kind of the name of the game, but it's not always that bad. Starting your own company is an unreasonably high bar to set. Very few people do that, and even fewer do it successfully. It's not all or nothing of you achieve the maximum human potential or you're a loser. You can improve yourself either way.

I hope so. The last thing I want is to be in a dead-end position in a nowhere job, or be laid off and replaced due to "diversity" reasons.

Tip: people will smell that resentment of 'SJW' stuff a mile away. I know some people take things so far but not everything related to anti-racism or anti-sexism is 'SJW'. Also, I don't really think people get fired so that they can be replaced to increase diversity. I've never heard of that happening and it honestly sounds kind of paranoid. If anything it's an initial hiring thing
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GhostGiblet posted...

Also, I don't really think people get fired so that they can be replaced to increase diversity. I've never heard of that happening and it honestly sounds kind of paranoid. If anything it's an initial hiring thing

Look at Goolag and Fascistbook, for examples of that.

Won't consider hiring you unless if you have a "diverse" skin-color or background, skills be damned.

TheWorstPoster posted...

GhostGiblet posted...

Also, I don't really think people get fired so that they can be replaced to increase diversity. I've never heard of that happening and it honestly sounds kind of paranoid. If anything it's an initial hiring thing

Look at Goolag and Fascistbook, for examples of that.

Won't consider hiring you unless if you have a "diverse" skin-color or background, skills be damned.

That's not an example of getting fired so you can be replaced by someone of a different race. Not going to get into a whole argument about pros and cons of affirmative action but the idea that they 'won't consider hiring you' unless you're a minority is just patently false. Google for example is still majority white male staffed.
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GhostGiblet posted...

That's not an example of getting fired so you can be replaced by someone of a different race. Not going to get into a whole argument about pros and cons of affirmative action but the idea that they 'won't consider hiring you' unless you're a minority is just patently false. Google for example is still majority white male staffed.

You might not agree with Breitbart, but they did an entire series dedicated to what former Google employees have to say about their company.

http://www.breitbart.com/tag/rebels-of-google/

It's terrifying.

It seems like if someone points out that you're making unsubstantiated claims, you kind of change the subject. Did you ever think about changing that? For instance your link does not demonstrate the idea of getting fired so that you can be replaced by a minority. I have never heard of that happening in real life.
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GhostGiblet posted...

It seems like if someone points out that you're making unsubstantiated claims, you kind of change the subject.

That's kinda his thing.
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TheWorstPoster posted...

GhostGiblet posted...

That's not an example of getting fired so you can be replaced by someone of a different race. Not going to get into a whole argument about pros and cons of affirmative action but the idea that they 'won't consider hiring you' unless you're a minority is just patently false. Google for example is still majority white male staffed.

You might not agree with Breitbart, but they did an entire series dedicated to what former Google employees have to say about their company.

http://www.breitbart.com/tag/rebels-of-google/

It's terrifying.

Joe Rogan had the guy who recently got fired from Google for his 'sexist' memo and it was really interesting.

Good thing Google isn't the only tech job out there.
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GhostGiblet posted...

It seems like if someone points out that you're making unsubstantiated claims, you kind of change the subject. Did you ever think about changing that? For instance your link does not demonstrate the idea of getting fired so that you can be replaced by a minority. I have never heard of that happening in real life.

They guy you're arguing with is 27 and literally has never had a job, so save your time.

It seems you have no intentions of bettering yourself as a person, so how 'bout an alternative. You know the phrase "losing all hope was freedom"? I'd always thought of it as some pseudo-intellectual bullshit, but it's surprisingly liberating when you give up all hope of things working out. Only at that point can you stop worrying about how your life should be and continue on with it. And, ironically, things sometimes have a way of working themselves out.

A little positive nihilism can go a long way.

Snuggletoof posted...

It seems you have no intentions of bettering yourself as a person, so how 'bout an alternative. You know the phrase "losing all hope was freedom"? I'd always thought of it as some pseudo-intellectual bullshit, but it's surprisingly liberating when you give up all hope of things working out. Only at that point can you stop worrying about how your life should be and continue on with it. And, ironically, things sometimes have a way of working themselves out.

A little positive nihilism can go a long way.

Nihilism goes against absolutely everything I stand for, or believe. Hopelessness leads to despair. Despair leads to destruction. Destruction leads to death.

Just work out and become a beefcake and marry some 40-ish divorcee.
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Stop playing on a pc or an Xbox, winners use Sony consoles.
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J_Dawg983 posted...

Stop playing on a pc or an Xbox, winners use Sony consoles.

Chad Wardenn? Is that you?

Snuggletoof posted...

J_Dawg983 posted...

Stop playing on a pc or an Xbox, winners use Sony consoles.

Chad Wardenn? Is that you?

Do I look like a c-dawg to you?!

Also not to hop on the get a job bandwagon but maybe you should consider some part time work for the weekends or something, it'll force some human interaction with others which would help a lot.
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I just realized this, and it should have been obvious from the start.

I am a loser, because I say I am a loser. My faults are all my own. I am my own failure. And due to my internal inhibitions I have towards anybody else, society as well perceived me as one. The only way I can stop being a loser, is if I stop being a loser.

How am I going to do it? I don't know just yet. But I know that I am my own problem and my own worst enemy.

What I lack is confidence. But if I do lie to myself about my own confidence, I am also doomed to failure.

So, I am stuck. I am a loser, because I am a loser, and I have no idea how to gain confidence.

I was going to say something uplifting but I changed my mind because you probably wouldn't listen to what I said anyway(or anyone else for that matter).
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LeetCheet posted...

I was going to say something uplifting but I changed my mind because you probably wouldn't listen to what I said anyway(or anyone else for that matter).

Just say it anyway.

There is nothing stopping you.

I've tried to tell you many times how to improve your life because I've been in the same situation as well.
Life didnt always felt like it was worth living but I never gave up.

When you eventually get a job, then it might turn some things around for you. I know it did for me at least.
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LeetCheet posted...

I've tried to tell you many times how to improve your life because I've been in the same situation as well.
Life didnt always felt like it was worth living but I never gave up.

Having an associate's degree in Computer Information Technology isn't enough (especially when I am going for more degrees)?

TheWorstPoster posted...

Snuggletoof posted...

It seems you have no intentions of bettering yourself as a person, so how 'bout an alternative. You know the phrase "losing all hope was freedom"? I'd always thought of it as some pseudo-intellectual bullshit, but it's surprisingly liberating when you give up all hope of things working out. Only at that point can you stop worrying about how your life should be and continue on with it. And, ironically, things sometimes have a way of working themselves out.

A little positive nihilism can go a long way.

Nihilism goes against absolutely everything I stand for, or believe. Hopelessness leads to despair. Despair leads to destruction. Destruction leads to death.

You made a similar speech about how you always honor account bets because welching was against your code or whatever.

Now here you are, a welcher AND a hypocrite.

TheWorstPoster posted...

I just realized this, and it should have been obvious from the start.

I am a loser, because I say I am a loser. My faults are all my own. I am my own failure. And due to my internal inhibitions I have towards anybody else, society as well perceived me as one. The only way I can stop being a loser, is if I stop being a loser.

How am I going to do it? I don't know just yet. But I know that I am my own problem and my own worst enemy.

What I lack is confidence. But if I do lie to myself about my own confidence, I am also doomed to failure.

So, I am stuck. I am a loser, because I am a loser, and I have no idea how to gain confidence.

You also consistently and constantly ignore legit advice from users here for years on end. You rarely even acknowledge their advice, you always just acknowledge you have an issue and as soon as ideas and solutions pop up you don't say a word about it.

It doesn't help you always think everyone here is out to get you. Don't know why anyone would ever return to a place if they thought that or years on end but whatever.

For some odd reason there are STILL people after all these years who give you legit advice. Hell if I know why they waste their time.

And I don't think you have ONCE taken anyone's advice here. Not once. I cannot think of a single time.

And to further make things worse you treat women like dirt. I won't say more because the person I talked to asked me to keep this in confidence but I know what you've been doing this past week and you fucking need to knock shit like that the fuck off because it's well known you've done it beforehand.

TheWorstPoster posted...

How do I become a winner?


inb4getajobwelcher

That's actually one of the answers though. Nothing wrong with going to school but the idea would be to eventually get a job as without a job you'll always be at a roadblock in your life.
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I like how ICOYAR is a complete monster to people yet people still want to help him. He likes harming himself and other people, and not in a fun way, so just leave him alone until he bothers engaging people in a human way for a while.
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I would've assumed people on this board could smell a troll from a mile away. Clearly I was wrong.
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TheWorstPoster posted...

GhostGiblet posted...

Also, I don't really think people get fired so that they can be replaced to increase diversity. I've never heard of that happening and it honestly sounds kind of paranoid. If anything it's an initial hiring thing

Look at Goolag and Fascistbook, for examples of that.

Won't consider hiring you unless if you have a "diverse" skin-color or background, skills be damned.

Everything you say like this comes from spending too much time on the internet and not enough interacting with actual people. You go out and get a basic retail job, and you'll develop social skills in a month, and then look back on your old posts and realize how wrong they are.

I was a social recluse, too. Saw a shrink, got a job at Staples, worked wonders.
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Guide posted...

Everything you say like this comes from spending too much time on the internet and not enough interacting with actual people.

So?

TheWorstPoster posted...

the fact that I see total degenerates with good looking girls, and have money, despite the fact that they are something I don't want to say without the mods banning me for it.

so in your mind being a welfare leech who rags on entitlement programs as though he doesnt constantly take advantage of them does not make you a total degenerate?


oh, also, get a fucking job you welcher
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Troll_Police_ posted...

so in your mind being a welfare leech who rags on entitlement programs as though he doesnt constantly take advantage of them does not make you a total degenerate?

Only a partial one

MonsterZed posted...

TheWorstPoster posted...

I just realized this, and it should have been obvious from the start.

I am a loser, because I say I am a loser. My faults are all my own. I am my own failure. And due to my internal inhibitions I have towards anybody else, society as well perceived me as one. The only way I can stop being a loser, is if I stop being a loser.

How am I going to do it? I don't know just yet. But I know that I am my own problem and my own worst enemy.

What I lack is confidence. But if I do lie to myself about my own confidence, I am also doomed to failure.

So, I am stuck. I am a loser, because I am a loser, and I have no idea how to gain confidence.

You also consistently and constantly ignore legit advice from users here for years on end. You rarely even acknowledge their advice, you always just acknowledge you have an issue and as soon as ideas and solutions pop up you don't say a word about it.

It doesn't help you always think everyone here is out to get you. Don't know why anyone would ever return to a place if they thought that or years on end but whatever.

For some odd reason there are STILL people after all these years who give you legit advice. Hell if I know why they waste their time.

And I don't think you have ONCE taken anyone's advice here. Not once. I cannot think of a single time.

And to further make things worse you treat women like dirt. I won't say more because the person I talked to asked me to keep this in confidence but I know what you've been doing this past week and you fucking need to knock shit like that the fuck off because it's well known you've done it beforehand.

You're right.

I'll stop.

I don't even know what I was even thinking beforehand. Or maybe not at all.

TheWorstPoster posted...

Guide posted...

Everything you say like this comes from spending too much time on the internet and not enough interacting with actual people.

So?

So it's false to the point of being delusional.
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Good grief.

Get your life together. Youth doesn't last forever. You'll regret this and all the opportunities you wasted in your younger days when you're old AND REALLY suffering.
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How can you be sad with yourself ico? You have some bowling trophies, a PS4 pro, and a well known poster on potd. That's really living the dream.
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You don't have to have sociopolitical conversations with people you work with, I'd even suggest avoiding it entirely because it never leads to anything good. Show up on time, do your job in a professional manner and you'll be fine.
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Kyuubi4269 posted...

I like how ICOYAR is a complete monster to people yet people still want to help him.

Eh.
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He contacted me through PM and against my better judgement I told him what I thought.

Several hours later and no response. I'm not surprised.

MonsterZed posted...

He contacted me through PM and against my better judgement I told him what I thought.

Several hours later and no response. I'm not surprised.

His laziness is what's kept him from turning his family into furniture, ok?
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