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cuttin_in_farm
11/20/18 8:52:52 PM
#1:


Half these girls are busted, have no bio, or cant conversate their way out of a paper bag.

Yet hundreds of dudes are chomping at the bits for anything with a hole instead of pole.

Its embarassing. This women have no reason to try if people just praise who the fuck ever.

Very reminiscent of selfie culture and consumer patterns, tbh.
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TheMarthKoopa
11/20/18 8:54:01 PM
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inb4limitlesschad
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voldothegr8
11/20/18 8:55:17 PM
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This happened well before online, there were simply more social gatherings and the like before it.
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AlephZero
11/20/18 8:56:29 PM
#4:


the average man is unfuckable

the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick
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Flockaveli
11/20/18 8:56:29 PM
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Conversate isnt a word. You meant converse.
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cuttin_in_farm
11/20/18 8:57:47 PM
#6:


Flockaveli posted...
Conversate isnt a word. You meant converse.


Are you fucking stupid?
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bladegash
11/20/18 8:58:35 PM
#7:


The only dudes ruining online dating are the ones who arent spamming dick picks.
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cuttin_in_farm
11/20/18 8:59:03 PM
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voldothegr8 posted...
This happened well before online, there were simply more social gatherings and the like before it.


Then it didnt ruin online dating, now did it? Besides, I dont think it was to this degree.
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Hulkasaurusrex
11/20/18 8:59:30 PM
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I agree thirsty guys hurt women more than anything because they don't really got to try. It gives them no reason to improve. I saw an article and they made a profile with a hot girl and said the worst shit still had tons of replies.
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cuttin_in_farm
11/20/18 9:08:50 PM
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Hulkasaurusrex posted...
I agree thirsty guys hurt women more than anything because they don't really got to try. It gives them no reason to improve. I saw an article and they made a profile with a hot girl and said the worst shit still had tons of replies.


Men have to learn VERY fast what to say and how to prevent themselves.

I see girls with profiles with nothing but group photos (I can never discover who the actual chick is), terrible selfies (Isnt this what you women do all day?), and no or one fragment (not sentence) bios.

I cant criticize them because they clearly get mountainous amounts of messages.

But this stupidity and lack of pride from men ruins it for everybody. Women dont know whats shit about themselves or their presentation, thirsty dudes still are thirsty while men who try cant compete with the sheer quantity of thirst and look elsewhere.
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TommyG663513
11/20/18 9:11:23 PM
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Perhaps if all women didn't share the same generic personality...
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AlephZero
11/20/18 9:12:14 PM
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TommyG663513 posted...
Perhaps if all women didn't share the same generic personality...

i love friends, wine, and traveling teehee
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Lost_All_Senses
11/20/18 9:15:44 PM
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You guys need to go out in the world so you can realize women aren't all one hive mind that is easily manipulated by the world. Not any easier than men at least
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QwelzaarKane
11/20/18 9:18:40 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
You guys need to go out in the world


Let's be realistic now.
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_Lyonidias
11/20/18 9:18:42 PM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...
Hulkasaurusrex posted...
I agree thirsty guys hurt women more than anything because they don't really got to try. It gives them no reason to improve. I saw an article and they made a profile with a hot girl and said the worst shit still had tons of replies.


Men have to learn VERY fast what to say and how to prevent themselves.

I see girls with profiles with nothing but group photos (I can never discover who the actual chick is), terrible selfies (Isnt this what you women do all day?), and no or one fragment (not sentence) bios.

I cant criticize them because they clearly get mountainous amounts of messages.

But this stupidity and lack of pride from men ruins it for everybody. Women dont know whats shit about themselves or their presentation, thirsty dudes still are thirsty while men who try cant compete with the sheer quantity of thirst and look elsewhere.


TommyG663513 posted...
Perhaps if all women didn't share the same generic personality...


jfc yikes

date men if you hate women so much tbh
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cuttin_in_farm
11/20/18 9:21:29 PM
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TommyG663513 posted...
Perhaps if all women didn't share the same generic personality...


What reason do they have to change this? Men would do the same shit if people matched with them.

Lost_All_Senses posted...
You guys need to go out in the world so you can realize women aren't all one hive mind that is easily manipulated by the world. Not any easier than men at least


Who said they were? Some people arent good on camera. Some people get stage fright. And some people cant make dating profiles. I see too many women in the later. Too many women who give minimum effort in responses because they have TOO much choice.

They have no control mechanism. They have no reason to assume they need to try. Because they dont. You cant criticize them for something that works.
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TommyG663513
11/20/18 9:23:18 PM
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_Lyonidias posted...
cuttin_in_farm posted...
Hulkasaurusrex posted...
I agree thirsty guys hurt women more than anything because they don't really got to try. It gives them no reason to improve. I saw an article and they made a profile with a hot girl and said the worst shit still had tons of replies.


Men have to learn VERY fast what to say and how to prevent themselves.

I see girls with profiles with nothing but group photos (I can never discover who the actual chick is), terrible selfies (Isnt this what you women do all day?), and no or one fragment (not sentence) bios.

I cant criticize them because they clearly get mountainous amounts of messages.

But this stupidity and lack of pride from men ruins it for everybody. Women dont know whats shit about themselves or their presentation, thirsty dudes still are thirsty while men who try cant compete with the sheer quantity of thirst and look elsewhere.


TommyG663513 posted...
Perhaps if all women didn't share the same generic personality...


jfc yikes

date men if you hate women so much tbh


I do date men too. It really isn't that much better. A lot of gay dudes act a lot like straight girls. I'm into more masculine men and it seems the majority say "yasss queen."

It isn't about hating women. Dating prospects in general are bad. The majority are losing in the online dating game. Do you seriously think straight women have no complaints?
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TommyG663513
11/20/18 9:34:18 PM
#18:


cuttin_in_farm posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
Perhaps if all women didn't share the same generic personality...


What reason do they have to change this? Men would do the same shit if people matched with them.

Lost_All_Senses posted...
You guys need to go out in the world so you can realize women aren't all one hive mind that is easily manipulated by the world. Not any easier than men at least


Who said they were? Some people arent good on camera. Some people get stage fright. And some people cant make dating profiles. I see too many women in the later. Too many women who give minimum effort in responses because they have TOO much choice.

They have no control mechanism. They have no reason to assume they need to try. Because they dont. You cant criticize them for something that works.


How do we solve this? If I judge a woman by her profile then all women are eliminated. Pictures generally display an acceptable woman. Hard to gauge if it is a good match unless we talk. Need to match up so we can talk. Hard to justify putting in too much effort into opener, because so many accounts are inactive. Best bet is to devise some sort of unique opener you use on everyone. The whole game is based on casting a wide net.

Hard for me to get all picky about a woman's appearance, because I know that only matters so much. As long as they aren't super overweight and/or ugly then I'm open to speaking with them. I've been on numerous first dates where I try to get her to talk about herself and it is super generic stuff. Half of these women even admit they're boring to my face and all I can do is nod. I don't think I'm the most adventurous person in the world, but most women make me feel like I just got done backpacking through Europe.

If only I change and no one else does then I get nowhere.

Only success I've had is performing comedy at open mics. I'll usually get a girl or two to quick complement my act, but it is always a girl with a date. This stuff is just downright depressing.

At least I do get a lot of enjoyment out of doing stand up among my other hobbies.
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RoboLaserGandhi
11/20/18 9:37:32 PM
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LlMITLESS

CHAD

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Lost_All_Senses
11/20/18 9:40:38 PM
#20:


Btw. Why do I always see these topics but I rarely see topics about actually dating women? Are you guys using tinder specifically for material to bitch about women?
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rikasa
11/20/18 9:40:49 PM
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Guys aren't going to withhold sex until their sexual market value goes up lmao.
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SpiralDrift
11/20/18 9:46:01 PM
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Food for thought*...

Girls talk about at 230 words per minute with over girls.
Guys talks at about 150 words per minute with other guys.
Girls and guys talk to each other at <20 words per minute

Think about it.

*that I just made up.
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TommyG663513
11/20/18 9:51:41 PM
#23:


Lost_All_Senses posted...
Btw. Why do I always see these topics but I rarely see topics about actually dating women? Are you guys using tinder specifically for material to bitch about women?


No I use it every few months when I feel a twinge of hope that every negative feeling I've ever had was false only for I to be confirmed.

I'm sick of going on dates with girls that expect me to pay for drinks meanwhile talking about what feminists they are...
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QwelzaarKane
11/20/18 9:59:25 PM
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TommyG663513 posted...
No I use it every few months when I feel a twinge of hope that every negative feeling I've ever had was false only for I to be confirmed.


Then maybe quit using dating apps and

Lost_All_Senses posted...
go out in the world

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cuttin_in_farm
11/20/18 10:03:12 PM
#25:


Lost_All_Senses posted...
Btw. Why do I always see these topics but I rarely see topics about actually dating women? Are you guys using tinder specifically for material to bitch about women?


People who actually date typically have a better time than online daters.

Seeing as people are more likely to broadcast negative experiences than positive, there you go.

I dont really date currently. I did create a dating account recently and I was massively underwhelmed. Ill stick to real life, but I refuse to believe this is the state of online dating.
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RoboLaserGandhi
11/20/18 10:03:34 PM
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Rich girls ruined online dating.

They use it as a sugar daddy finder and they're literally everywhere on them. I wish I could filter that shit out.
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cuttin_in_farm
11/20/18 10:04:46 PM
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RoboLaserGandhi posted...
Rich girls ruined online dating.

They use it as a sugar daddy finder and they're literally everywhere on them. I wish I could filter that shit out.


I dont think you know what a sugar daddy is.
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TommyG663513
11/20/18 10:17:33 PM
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QwelzaarKane posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
No I use it every few months when I feel a twinge of hope that every negative feeling I've ever had was false only for I to be confirmed.


Then maybe quit using dating apps and

Lost_All_Senses posted...
go out in the world


You act like dating is so easy and accessible outside of apps. I basically just go out to watch and perform in comedy open mics. Only thing I can guarantee is my love of comedy and the joy of pursuing it. Sometimes I get opportunities to talk to girls there, but girls very often go to those shows with their BFs. It is rare to see a group of single girls together in a comedy club.
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Sad_Face
11/20/18 10:44:59 PM
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Hulkasaurusrex posted...
I agree thirsty guys hurt women more than anything because they don't really got to try. It gives them no reason to improve. I saw an article and they made a profile with a hot girl and said the worst shit still had tons of replies.

Found it

http://www.cracked.com/blog/4-things-i-learned-from-worst-online-dating-profile-ever/

The profile is pretty funny


> Make a profile made of the worst stuff ever, but is entertaining to read through when most girls don't even bother with their profiles
> Also note at the end "Want $$$ and casual sex"
> Is terribly surprised when guys are lining up to get their chance

How is the writer so oblivious to how the dating game works?
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TommyG663513
11/20/18 11:00:32 PM
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Sad_Face posted...
Hulkasaurusrex posted...
I agree thirsty guys hurt women more than anything because they don't really got to try. It gives them no reason to improve. I saw an article and they made a profile with a hot girl and said the worst shit still had tons of replies.

Found it

http://www.cracked.com/blog/4-things-i-learned-from-worst-online-dating-profile-ever/

The profile is pretty funny


> Make a profile made of the worst stuff ever, but is entertaining to read through when most girls don't even bother with their profiles
> Also note at the end "Want $$$ and casual sex"
> Is terribly surprised when guys are lining up to get their chance

How is the writer so oblivious to how the dating game works?


Yeah I mean at least that profile comes off as more honest. Hard to imagine a bad profile that isn't at least a bit in jest. We all know that girls get away with super generic profiles.

Just hard to imagine a profile a woman could write that takes away whatever was gained from good pictures.
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cuttin_in_farm
11/20/18 11:05:44 PM
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Sad_Face posted...
Hulkasaurusrex posted...
I agree thirsty guys hurt women more than anything because they don't really got to try. It gives them no reason to improve. I saw an article and they made a profile with a hot girl and said the worst shit still had tons of replies.

Found it

http://www.cracked.com/blog/4-things-i-learned-from-worst-online-dating-profile-ever/

The profile is pretty funny


> Make a profile made of the worst stuff ever, but is entertaining to read through when most girls don't even bother with their profiles
> Also note at the end "Want $$$ and casual sex"
> Is terribly surprised when guys are lining up to get their chance

How is the writer so oblivious to how the dating game works?


People have no clue how applicable children stories are to real life.

Goldilocks told us how a middleground is important.

Replies in all caps and cartoonish request like pulling teeth arent taken seriously. Its too extreme. Bad experiment.
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Returning_CEmen
11/20/18 11:19:42 PM
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One of my female friends was telling me about this. She showed me a picture of her chubby friend, and she was like she is a slut, its ridiculous. She gets dudes that are way out of her league that just use her for sex.
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emblem boy
11/20/18 11:30:11 PM
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When I was on tinder, I tried being more picky in who I swiped on. Gotta make these girls work for it
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QwelzaarKane
11/20/18 11:42:55 PM
#34:


TommyG663513 posted...
You act like dating is so easy and accessible outside of apps.


I basically just go out to watch and perform in comedy open mics.

It is rare to see a group of single girls together in a comedy club.

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TommyG663513
11/21/18 2:46:58 AM
#35:


QwelzaarKane posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
You act like dating is so easy and accessible outside of apps.


I basically just go out to watch and perform in comedy open mics.

It is rare to see a group of single girls together in a comedy club.


What is your point? I go to Comedy clubs, because I love comedy. Meeting women is far from my reason for attending. I want to get better at doing stand up comedy first and foremost. Occasionally I get opportunities to speak with women there, but not often. You tend to see a lot of couples there. Rarely are women present at those sorts of things without a date, but it still does happen.

I don't really like to go out to bars and drink. Not sure where else I'm supposed to go to chat up strangers. Bars are the only place I know I wont be speaking to someone too young. I'm almost 30.
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DrizztLink
11/21/18 2:54:06 AM
#36:


cuttin_in_farm posted...
Men have to learn VERY fast what to say and how to prevent themselves.

I never learned how to prevent myself :(
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cuttin_in_farm
11/21/18 3:11:13 AM
#37:


DrizztLink posted...
cuttin_in_farm posted...
Men have to learn VERY fast what to say and how to prevent themselves.

I never learned how to prevent myself :(


Bro, its easy. Good thing, its never too late to learn.
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QwelzaarKane
11/21/18 3:46:31 AM
#38:


TommyG663513 posted...
What is your point?


You say meeting women IRL is difficult then immediately say you only go places where you're unlikely to meet women. Like, no shit you're having trouble. You can meet women literally anywhere.
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SiO4
11/21/18 4:01:27 AM
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https://vimeo.com/111997940
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foreverzero212
11/21/18 4:10:09 AM
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It's pretty gross reading all the bios that are filled with nothing but expectations for their potential man. Then they act like they're the mature one just looking for a relationship.

You listed nothing about yourself and you expect high quality dudes to seek a serious relationship with you. What are they supposed to like about you beyond your busted pics?

And yet the chads come knocking.
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DrizztLink
11/21/18 5:11:06 AM
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TommyG663513
11/21/18 5:22:44 AM
#42:


QwelzaarKane posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
What is your point?


You say meeting women IRL is difficult then immediately say you only go places where you're unlikely to meet women. Like, no shit you're having trouble. You can meet women literally anywhere.


Not really. I outlined issues with bars. I have a job during the graveyard hours. I have my own interests that I pursue that take up time. I'm not going to do things that are completely unnatural to me just for the purpose of meeting women. Comedy clubs, quite frankly, give me more opportunity than most things I do to talk to women. The thing is I'm extremely passionate about comedy so talking to women there is just a thing that happens on occasion that I don't plan for. The thing with comedy is it decreases my anxiety about being in social situations by being on a stage in front of a large group telling jokes. There is an awful lot of worth in that all by itself which is why I go to open mics very often.

People don't have unlimited time to go meet people. It's weird to approach people at the gym, generally. Sometimes I can chat with someone at the grocery store, but people are usually busy shopping. Not gonna go to a random place to lurk and meet women unless I have a real reason for being there.

The biggest place to meet people is bars, but again, I'm not into that stuff very much.
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SiO4
11/21/18 6:54:18 AM
#43:


DrizztLink posted...
SiO4 posted...
https://vimeo.com/111997940

David Gesslbauer: plain genius

10/10.


Aye!
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pinky0926
11/21/18 7:01:39 AM
#44:


This scenario is not enjoyable for women either.

If you're looking for someone who is compatible and that you can form a meaningful connection with, 900 offers from chodes asking if you want to fuck so they can leave and never speak to you again is about as useful as an all you can shit buffet.
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ArchiePeck
11/21/18 7:17:47 AM
#45:


pinky0926 posted...
This scenario is not enjoyable for women either.

If you're looking for someone who is compatible and that you can form a meaningful connection with, 900 offers from chodes asking if you want to fuck so they can leave and never speak to you again is about as useful as an all you can shit buffet.


CE incels in response: "No, the whole dating game is completely stacked in women's favour. It's UNFAIR!"
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pinky0926
11/21/18 7:27:48 AM
#46:


ArchiePeck posted...
pinky0926 posted...
This scenario is not enjoyable for women either.

If you're looking for someone who is compatible and that you can form a meaningful connection with, 900 offers from chodes asking if you want to fuck so they can leave and never speak to you again is about as useful as an all you can shit buffet.


CE incels in response: "No, the whole dating game is completely stacked in women's favour. It's UNFAIR!"


And meanwhile, women everywhere are crying on the sofa eating icecream and mumbling "men are such assholes"
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im not 13
11/21/18 7:30:18 AM
#47:


pinky0926 posted...
This scenario is not enjoyable for women either.

If you're looking for someone who is compatible and that you can form a meaningful connection with, 900 offers from chodes asking if you want to fuck so they can leave and never speak to you again is about as useful as an all you can shit buffet.


I never quite understood this

Ignore the guys sending dick pics and size up the actual decent suiters... I can't imagine how this is harder than the average guy trying to get a date on tinder. It's freaking brutal out there
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CyricZ
11/21/18 7:31:31 AM
#48:


TommyG663513 posted...
I have a job during the graveyard hours.

Healthcare workers. Look for nurses or other healthcare professionals. They keep the oddest of hours, so you'll have that in common, and some of them clean up damn good.
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JBaLLEN66
11/21/18 7:33:25 AM
#49:


I love it when incels talk about dating.
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ArchiePeck
11/21/18 7:33:35 AM
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im not 13 posted...
pinky0926 posted...
This scenario is not enjoyable for women either.

If you're looking for someone who is compatible and that you can form a meaningful connection with, 900 offers from chodes asking if you want to fuck so they can leave and never speak to you again is about as useful as an all you can shit buffet.


I never quite understood this

Ignore the guys sending dick pics and size up the actual decent suiters... I can't imagine how this is harder than the average guy trying to get a date on tinder. It's freaking brutal out there


One of my friends was telling me that she gets daily messages from creepy looking guys on these apps like "Do anal?" and "Can I finish on your boobs". I imagine that very quickly starts to sour your enthusiasm for dating.
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