Poll of the Day > How to never EVER pay on a date

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Hi ladies.

This sub is in unanimous agreement that as women, we should never EVER have to pay on a date, and we should let the man take on that role. I've been dating for 4-5 years now pretty consistently, and I've had plenty of free meals and drinks since then.

# Choose the Right Target

I'm a Becky (6-7) in my early-20s and I can get guys my age (25-28) who are my looksmatch to buy me free drinks and meals pretty consistently on dates at mid-high-end places. If I want to experience fine dining (a bill that costs like $200+), I date older men (30+) because they can afford it. I can pretty much get free meals every day if I wanted to and if I schedule correctly.

You need to choose men who have a good white collar jobs or they have their own business. I typically date men in the tech or finance field. They have the income to spend money on a date compared to a man who doesn't make much.

# Be High Value

A key part to making this work is to look as good as you can. I wear a dress to all of my dates, heels, and I put on makeup. I rarely wear pants unless we do a physical activity. You need to emphasize the difference between you and your date: that you are a woman and he is a man. Wear earrings and put on a sexy perfume!

Be a good listener and a good conversationalist. Be interested in them as a person, ask questions, speak softly and in a girly voice, laugh softly, and don't interrupt them. You need to be fun to be around with so that they think that they won't ever think of making you pay the bill because they had a bad time. Even if you feel like the connection isn't there, still be nice to them and treat them well.

# What If He Still Asks You to Pay?

The question remains though: how do you avoid paying if the man you're going out with asks you to split the bill? If you ever hear this from a man, I don't care how many dates you've been on, if it's the first or fifth date, simply tell him that you'll take care of the bill the next time you go out since you prefer taking turns since that's more romantic. Don't appear bitter. Smile as you say this and act feminine! Be sweet, confident, and show him that you desire him nonverbally. 99% of men won't insist that you pay the bill during that time.

Of course, there won't be another date. Delete him from the dating app and block his number. You don't need to say anything more to them. Don't feel guilty about blocking a cheap man. Just remember that men don't feel guilty about using women and playing with their emotions. It's only fair that we reserve the right to block cheap men who won't add value to our lives.

# Don't Be Deceived by His Looks. He Should Still Pay.

It's easy to be confident in making a man who's below your league to pay for the bill every time you go out. But if you encounter a man who you find sexy and hot, you might be tempted to split the bill because you don't want to lose him or because you think that you're privileged to date such a hot guy. Stop. You might only *think* that the guy is above your league when he IS in your league and you're attractive too. (This is the case with me since I grew up as a plain Jane.) AND even if he's above your league, you still don't pay, comprende? You follow the advice I've give to you. He's a man and it's his role to be a provider. You have no business dating a man who dares to ask you to split the bill -- I don't care how hot he is or how good he makes you feel. Women need to date men who add something to their lives. I've dated a few guys who are above my league but they still didn't make me pay because they enjoyed being with me and it added value to their lives.

# So Go Forth and Date...

If you have any more questions, feel free to ask them below!

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"How to pimp yourself out"
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Let's just shorten this

"How to never pay on dates"
Step 1: be female
Step 2: date a guy
Step 3 (optional): act like sex is going to definitely happen

Lovely.

But women have it so difficult!

Whether or not this topic, specifically, is satire, I know there ARE people who legitimately think like TC does.
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Its an older poll, but you should still probably take this advice to a website that isnt 92%+ males. You arent reaching your target demo:

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/poll/5410-are-you-male-or-female
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Lmao
I legit cant tell if your serious or not
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I just copied it from reddit

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Yikeronis, Spotted the femcel, who hurt you?

YTA btw
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Greenfox111 posted...

I just copied it from reddit

Oh. Never mind then
Still pretty bad tho. Dont do this. Please.
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Greenfox is male, right? If so, the part where it said we probably should have been a clue...
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How to NEVER pay for a date:

Step 1: Spend all your time on the internet and never meet people in real.
Step 2: Never dress up for anything, wear comfy pants/t-shirt if you go out at all.
Step 3: Make sure to never brush your teeth or use mouthwash.
Step 4: If someone STILL seems interested in you, talk REALLY fast and only about yourself.
Step 5: After all that, just say you have no cash and more then likely the brain damaged person will pay for anything anyway.
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How to never pay on a date: Establish beforehand that you don't want to pay for anything. Either you don't end up with the date, you end up going somewhere free, or they pay. Works for anyone.
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How to never pay on a date:

Date a sugar mama or sugar daddy...
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adjl posted...

How to never pay on a date: Establish beforehand that you don't want to pay for anything. Either you don't end up with the date, you end up going somewhere free, or they pay. Works for anyone.

When I was doing the online dating thing, I met one who insisted I pay for everything. She made it very clear that she was to spend no money of her own, I was to pick her up at her chosen time and her place, as well as bring a gift.

We never went on a date. I was not going to play by her rules, especially when she got mad when I suggested we meet halfway because I didn't want be driving an hour and a half. She sent me nasty messages for a couple days, calling me a cheap bastard and hoped I would never get laid for the rest of my life

How to never pay on a date (at least not with money).
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CTLM posted...

adjl posted...

How to never pay on a date: Establish beforehand that you don't want to pay for anything. Either you don't end up with the date, you end up going somewhere free, or they pay. Works for anyone.

When I was doing the online dating thing, I met one who insisted I pay for everything. She made it very clear that she was to spend no money of her own, I was to pick her up at her chosen time and her place, as well as bring a gift.

We never went on a date. I was not going to play by her rules, especially when she got mad when I suggested we meet halfway because I didn't want be driving an hour and a half. She sent me nasty messages for a couple days, calling me a cheap bastard and hoped I would never get laid for the rest of my life

Doesn't sound like you missed out on much.
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adjl posted...

Doesn't sound like you missed out on much.

No as things worked out pretty good for me a month or so later. I started hooking up with two different girls I met online. Ironically, it was not from a dating site

I agree! Especially if a guy asks you out on a date but I also recall my mother telling my sisters to make sure they had cab/bus fare because some guys think just because they take a woman on a date that means they'll sleep with them later.
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