Poll of the Day > No one likes me

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guy12345
10/27/19 6:35:11 PM
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With very, very, few exceptions, most people in life that I've encountered -- relatives, co workers, when I was in school fellow classmates, random people etc -- don't seem to like me. Does anyone else have this problem?
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PKMNsony
10/27/19 6:38:31 PM
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I'm going to say it's probably mostly in your head, assuming you're not an asshole. I used to have similar thoughts. If they haven't actually told you, don't assume what they think about you because it's usually going to be negative.
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wolfy42
10/27/19 6:45:13 PM
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There is an interpretation of the bible and "sins of the fathers" that states it's not your actual parents actions, but your own actions in previous lives, your soul continues to exist in hell (here), until you achieve salvation and ascend to heaven.

Your soul then carries the actions of previous lives, which other people may be able to sense (if not conciously), therefore making it likely that people will dislike you, even if they don't know why, because you were a total prat in a past life.

Maybe that is your prob, in which case just try and treat everyone as nice as you can and hopefully your next life will be much better.
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trodi_911
10/27/19 7:45:24 PM
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I'm sure you are mistaking not being liked with indifference.
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SunWuKung420
10/27/19 7:51:01 PM
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guy12345 posted...
Does anyone else have this problem?


I don't.
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Mead
10/27/19 7:51:58 PM
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I havent had that issue but why even worry whether or not other people like you

Just make sure that you like yourself
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EclairReturns
10/27/19 7:53:16 PM
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guy12345 posted...
this problem


I used to in the earlier stages of my post-secondary education. I had sort of an attitude problem and was told that I acted like I was in high school. They weren't wrong. I regret to say that some of my previous professors and some of the students I took their class with did not overly enjoy my company. I regret how I behaved during class. Also, I used to try to start a conversation with some people before class started, but was sometimes met with silence and the impression that I was not heard at all. This was not always the case, though. Some people talked to me when I spoke to them and one even went out of her way to start a conversation with me herself. Otherwise, I regret that I was not able to befriend most of the people I went to school with. If you asked me right now if everyone hates me, then I can say that I cannot say for sure if this is the case with people outside of my immediate family. I never talk to my co-workers. I spoke to my supervisor once about some random thing, but I think she either pretended to not hear me, or she did not hear me at all. Like the bloke two posts above me said, this is likely in my head. In any case, no one really goes out of the way to talk to me at work outside of the usual vacuous greeting, I can say for sure. In short, when I went to college, not everyone hated me. Right now, I cannot say. In any case, it is a continuing source of anxiety for me, and I urge you not to think on it overmuch, speaking from personal experience.
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Silver4405
10/27/19 7:54:45 PM
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Are you socially awkward?
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DPsx7
10/27/19 8:05:50 PM
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Why complain? It's a benefit. People are stupid.
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guy12345
10/27/19 8:06:46 PM
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Silver4405 posted...
Are you socially awkward?


Yes
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guy12345
10/27/19 8:07:27 PM
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trodi_911 posted...
I'm sure you are mistaking not being liked with indifference.


Ha. You're' probably right. Which is even morr pathetic
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Sonicplys
10/27/19 9:26:04 PM
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Nobody likes me too and Idgaf
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DDirtyDastard
10/27/19 9:28:42 PM
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I can't relate kid. Sorry.
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guy12345
10/27/19 9:33:41 PM
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DDirtyDastard posted...
I can't relate kid. Sorry.


Well I'm happy for you. I'd hate for anyone else to be like me
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DDirtyDastard
10/27/19 9:41:06 PM
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I'd recommend you study body-language and NLP. I guarantee you will see improvements in your social interactions.
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The Popo
10/27/19 9:45:52 PM
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guy12345 posted...
trodi_911 posted...
I'm sure you are mistaking not being liked with indifference.


Ha. You're' probably right. Which is even morr pathetic

Not really. Think of it this way... in your life, you can only view yourself as the main character of life in general. To 99.9999999999% of the rest of the world, you are an NPC.

That goes for everyone.

It might be harder for you than others, but its on you to make others notice you more. Try to engage with others more, even if its a simple compliment that you give to someone that you otherwise wouldnt. If you see something that someone else has or does that might hint at them having something in common with you, make a quick comment on it. If it strikes up a conversation, great - if it doesnt, then youre just in the same place with that person as you previously were at.

If you give people a reason to engage with you, youre gonna get more people who like you than dislike you.
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Zeus
10/27/19 10:07:45 PM
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I don't know who you are, so I'm not sure why I'd should like or dislike you.

guy12345 posted...
Does anyone else have this problem?


idk, I haven't polled how random strangers feel about me. Doesn't seem worth the time.

trodi_911 posted...
I'm sure you are mistaking not being liked with indifference.


Indifference is one form of not being liked, though.
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trodi_911
10/27/19 11:04:49 PM
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Zeus posted...
trodi_911 posted...
I'm sure you are mistaking not being liked with indifference.


Indifference is one form of not being liked, though.

It's also a form of not being hated so it's a half glass situation.
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HornedLion
10/27/19 11:28:50 PM
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TC, unless youre one of Zeus alts, Id say thats all in your head.
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ZBug_
10/27/19 11:42:34 PM
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guy12345 posted...
Does anyone else have this problem?

Nope. Im probably the most likable person here. I got brains, brawn, and looks. Im so charming and humble that no one can resist wanting to hang with me.
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Silver4405
10/28/19 11:11:48 AM
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guy12345 posted...
Silver4405 posted...
Are you socially awkward?


Yes

Then theres a lot that you need to work on. In school or at work, have you ever tried having even just one person to talk to? You cant be certain that people dislike you if they dont even know how you feel. They cant read your mind.
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Krazy_Kirby
10/28/19 11:32:29 AM
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go eat worms
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EvilMegas
10/28/19 11:57:36 AM
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I don't like you, T.C..

I love you
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