Current Events > Man gets woman arrested cause she gave him a happy ending at a massage parlor...

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FolkenRawr posted...

Jfc. Imagine reading that post and not only agreeing with it, but doubling down.

Keep pearl clutching, bro.

For what we know, it could be Normally they ask and I always say yes, I mean, it is only $15 extra. This time, she did it without asking and I was thinking "Oh yeah, they recognize me as a big customer and gives me one for free!!!".
But when I paid, I saw that they included the $15, so I was "Wait a minute! She did it without asking, I demand a refund!".
She looked at me and said "You have come here weekly for over 18 months, and you have always wanted a happy ending. You know that they cost $15 extra. If you didnt want one, then you would have said so instead of letting her finish. You wanted one, you got one, you pay for it.".
So I walked outside and called the cops on her. That will teach her to ask first!

Rotterdammerung posted...

Swap the genders and read that back to yourself

I would expect a woman to stop it too, not let it happen then ask for a refund

edit: to be clear this is because the OP presents it as him calling the cops because he didnt get his money back. He didnt call them because of the handjob

FolkenRawr posted...

This heavily reeks of watching too much porn. You know what massage parlors are known for? Giving massages.

This topic is full of gross.

It depends. Any Thai massage parlour will offer a happy ending at the end if you strip naked before the massage begins (you're given a few minutes in private to strip down and get on the table before it begins). If you leave your underwear on they probably won't.

95% of guys will jump at the chance to get jerked off for an extra $50(AUD, dunno what the going rate is in the US but that's about$30 USD)at the end of a massage, because the girls are often very pretty. I wonder if some confusion happened.

cjsdowg posted...

Dude was Sexually violated. Why are people acting like he is a wrong?

Because society still favors taking sexual assault on woman more seriously than sexual assault on men.

If this was a man forcing himself on a woman, with the woman calling the police this would have been a much different discussion.

NatsuSama posted...

Because society still favors taking sexual assault on woman more seriously than sexual assault on men.

Yes, this must be it.

It certainly has nothing to do with the actual context of the story. No way.

The easiest, laziest explanation is why.

Is there a source for story? I checked that Twitter account and this was one of their most recent posts. Which has been proven false...

https://twitter.com/RealTorontoNewz/status/1689305312170217472

Wouldnt he get arrested for accepting that kind of transaction too?

https://twitter.com/RealTorontoNewz/status/1400154452095651841

lol.

That woman is gross.

She needs to learn what consent means.

Okaymy bullshit detector is going off on this one. Could this man have been frozen in fear? Sure. Could he have been sexually assaulted, of course.

but then when interviewed the first thing out of your mouth is demanding a refund? That tells me you really dont care about being sexually assaulted. That tells me you care about money.

this reeks of trying to scam a place after getting exactly what you asked for.

chances are the masseuse is here illegally and being forced to give happy endings to everyone under threat of deportation. sothis guy probably got some poor woman deported over wanting to save a couple bucks.

VRX3000 posted...

Okaymy bullshit detector is going off on this one. Could this man have been frozen in fear? Sure. Could he have been sexually assaulted, of course.

but then when interviewed the first thing out of your mouth is demanding a refund? That tells me you really dont care about being sexually assaulted. That tells me you care about money.

this reeks of trying to scam a place after getting exactly what you asked for.

chances are the masseuse is here illegally and being forced to give happy endings to everyone under threat of deportation. sothis guy probably got some poor woman deported over wanting to save a couple bucks.

If this is the case he is 100% going to be arrested though

You know, for a guy claiming sexual misconduct, people would be more sympathetic towards you if you didn't have a shit-eating-grin on your face and started to yell out in public what you were accusing her of. Also, saying that you are saving yourself for Jesus doesn't help matters. Face it, you wanted a free massage.

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WizardPowers posted...

You can't really gender swap this one in 99% of cases though. The entire reason SA is so much worse for women is because the dude could easily just beat the woman to death if she starts to refuse

Doesn't matter if he finished or not. If he didn't want it he was sexually assaulted. There's no excuse. Men already under report. Men can be sexually assaulted by women. However I dotn know enough about this story. It's full of holes. He could be in the wrong for all I know and trying to find some excuse to get out of it.

Speaking as someone who has gotten massages of both the happy and standard variety... if anyone refers to a place as their "favorite" massage parlor, they know exactly what type of services are being offered there. Something here doesn't add up and I'm pressing X to doubt this guy's story.

cuttin_in_farm posted...

Sure.

You should be put in time out too for agreeing with that gross post.

https://youtu.be/6kSvKNvDjdY

It's definitely wrong to give a happy ending without consent, but I get dishonest vibes from the dude.

All this happy ending talk is making me want one Lol

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jaivgGELQbE&pp=ygUZc29uaWMgc2F5cyB0aGF0J3Mgbm8gZ29vZA%3D%3D

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Why?

cjsdowg posted...

Dude was Sexually violated. Why are people acting like he is a wrong?

Ladies in massage parlors don't just grab your wang for fun. They will only do so if you indicate you are willing to PAY for it.

JFC, dude. (smh)

Jx1010 posted...

I didnt know that.
Every massage place does this?

No. The overwhelming majority don't. You have to look pretty hard to find one that does.

Or be stationed in Korea and ask the ROKs about good places to go.

Lot of this topic kinda hinting towards victim blaming

Hey, I have an honest question. It sounds bad, but.. I don't know the answer so I have to ask.

Pretext: I'm working under the pretense that he was getting a massage at his favorite place, and the lady who was massaging him went in for the extra tip, because he seemed like an okay dude. She just wanted to make his night in hopes he paid her a bigger tip. I did not watch the video, but have been reading the topic.

If someone was moving your hand slowly into a pool of lava, saying nothing at all while they did it; if you dont stop them, would you agree that by not saying anything they allowed themselves to get burned?

I assume he finished, but had all the time in the world to say "hey, stop that!" But chose to sit back and enjoy it.

However I recognize that I definitely have at bare ass minimum, one detail wrong here so this is what I've come up with.

Some people will freeze in uncomfortable situations

That doesn't mean he was ok with it or consented

Dreepapult posted...

Some people will freeze in uncomfortable situations

That doesn't mean he was ok with it or consented

You know what, my Fianc does that and I didn't even think of that. I have my answer and need no further explanation.

Thank you so much, my Fianc isn't here for me to bounce this idea off of at the moment.

Lokison posted...

I assume he finished, but had all the time in the world to say "hey, stop that!" But chose to sit back and enjoy it.

Nothing in the video indicates this happened. Though I get why you get that impression from reading this topic.

In the video he only alleges she tried to touch his genitals. No word about him actually accepting it, or allowing it to happen, or about him finishing. That's all fantasy from the posters ITT.

Hornezz posted...

Nothing in the video indicates this happened. Though I get why you get that impression from reading this topic.

In the video he only alleges she tried to touch his genitals. No word about him actually accepting it, or allowing it to happen, or about him finishing. That's all fantasy from the posters ITT.

Yea.. I don't have data to watch to video right now so I went off what I saw and asked. I honestly appreciate @Dreepapult answering so peefectly.
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This is a good response. I agree I done fucked up. I will not hide that though, like you did.

Ive been meaning to go to a parlor Ive never gotten a full massage before. But could definitely use one I feel all broken sometimes

ai123 posted...

'Refused to give my money back'.

Sounds like he wanted a free massage to me.

This is what I was thinking based on what he said But who knows We only got one side, and barely that

Though, I guess that depends on if its true That account seems unreliable

FolkenRawr posted...

This heavily reeks of watching too much porn. You know what massage parlors are known for? Giving massages.

Even if they arent super common, its not like people havent heard of them. Its not like its weird that people that dont go to massage parlors often might think that based on the media that surrounds places like that

Rotterdammerung posted...

Swap the genders and read that back to yourself

Because no one is going to take a 110 pound Asian female raping a grown man seriously. Dude just had to say no if he didn't want it

I'm not gonna weigh in on this, but I will say I knew a girl who worked at a massage parlor and the owners absolutely pressure girls into doing this kind of stuff. Thing is, a lot of these women aren't working at massage parlors for shits and giggles, they're doing it because they have no other option, it'd make them more money than elsewhere while putting themselves through school, etc. If she tried to do it without asking or without him asking, it's because it's a place where 90% of the clientele expect it.

LinkPizza posted...

Even if they arent super common, its not like people havent heard of them.

It also depends on the location and "brand" of parlor. If this happened at a place like Massage Envy, then yes, it's very surprising. If it's a place with a sign titled SPA in Chinatown, it would be far more surprising if it *didn't* offer happy endings as a regular service. I'm not trying to be insensitive, that's just the reality of the situation. I live in the Vegas suburbs and there are literally hundreds of places to get a discreet hj in and around Chinatown here - same for many other major cities.

ArchNemo posted...

Thing is, a lot of these women aren't working at massage parlors for shits and giggles, they're doing it because they have no other option

This is something that does concern me, believe it or not, but for anyone grappling with the morality of the situation and trying to rationalize an "ethical" handjob, there are signs. Make sure to visit a parlor with regular hours, with middle aged women working there, and ideally with professional massage licenses displayed on the wall. The masseuse I occasionally visit to take the edge off is licensed, a legal US resident, works 10-5, probably around 45 years old, and drives a fancy BMW. She isn't an exploited victim of sex trafficking. She's an independent businessperson with agency who decided that she's willing to give handjobs in order to get rich.

Anyway, I wrote all this to demonstrate that I actually do know about this industry from personal experience, and this story just doesn't meet the smell test. I'm more likely to believe that he was seeking retribution after a dispute than he was sexually assaulted.

Always telling to see what some users will say in topics like this. Smh.

Ok so women 1, men a billion

bUt itS teH samE tHiNg rEEEEEEEEEEEEE

did she confess to doing it (at all, or against his will)? and if so, is this person saying it happened with zero other evidence sufficient to arrest her?

PballDepot posted...

Ok so women 1, men a billion

bUt itS teH samE tHiNg rEEEEEEEEEEEEE

The only one going rEEEE is you lol.

Is anyone here even claiming woman are the worse sexual predators or that woman do it as much as men?

Yet you went there because someone said this woman was one? Or dared to say men go through sexual abuse too?

NatsuSama posted...

Yet you went there because someone said this woman was one? Or dared to say men go through sexual abuse too?

I said it because some were taking it seriously instead of the farce that it clearly is.

bigtiggie23 posted...

Do massage parlors offer up happy endings with absolutely no asking for it? If they are that is the most generous massage parlor ever.

No...they do not. Massage parlors are the #1 place of police stings of just that stuff.

And add the "I want my money back" and I don't think we are getting the full picture here.

ShineboxPhil posted...

Don't know if he waited for her to finish for him to call the police

I was wondering this. How long did this go on before he knew where it was heading? Did he actually get the Ending? Was it a quick shot? Or did she start, and he quickly stopped her and called the police, before the actual ending?