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IdiotMachine
03/08/24 12:35:29 PM
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We're having a boy, with a scheduled delivery date of May. We're starting to be asked by the OBGYNs if we're planning on circumcising or not. We spoke to 4 different OBGYNs and here's the general medical consensus from them:
  • Circumcision will be done by the OBGYN the day after the birth.
  • The operation: Baby will be given a pacifier dipped in sugar water, and a special swaddle will be used that is only for the upper half of the body. The legs will be held down by straps. The penis will be sterilized and then a numbing agent will be applied onto the penis (it's a cream-like substance, and not a shot). After waiting ~5 minutes for the numbing agent to take into effect, a tool will be placed over the penis to guide the cut, cut will occur, then clamped back. No stitching is required. Apparently, the most bleeding you'd expect is also a drop or so; and most babies undergoing circumcision don't even cry or show any discomfort. This seems hard to believe, but all 4 of our OBGYNs said this.
  • Recovery: Gland will be swollen and may start crusting. No baths or showers allowed until fully healed. For the first 5 days, at every diaper change, use warm water and a sponge to lightly dab the penis, and cover with Vaseline to prevent sticking onto diaper. After the first 5 days, and until fully healed, wash at least once a day. Once fully healed (estimated to be between 7 to 14 days), bathing is acceptable.
  • Complications: The surgery itself- extremely rare; if anything happens, follow-up surgery may be required, but not by the OBGYN, but by a urologist. Most likely complication will result in follow-up surgery within the first 5 years due to skin fusing incorrectly to the gland. Recovery- Bacterial infection is extremely unlikely (also hard to believe???).
  • Benefits: The older OBGYNs seem to point out that there are a lot more medical benefits; they point out that having a foreskin could lead to problems with retraction due to improper "un-fusing" of the foreskin with the gland or the foreskin being too tight, infections due to poor hygiene, and higher STD rates. The younger OBGYNs seem to point out that it's largely social and visual preference. Regardless, all OBGYNs stated that if you don't do circumcision within the first few days of being born, the procedure gets significantly more complicated and will require general anaesthetic.
........thoughts, GameFAQs?

Personally, I thought circumcision would have much higher chance of complications and the baby will be tortured/hate it. But all OBGYNs that we talked to say that most babies literally sleep through the entire operation and the ones that don't are just fussy (and not screaming/crying). Given that, I feel like doing it is a no-brainer, since complications with a foreskin later on in-life is a thing.

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TimeForAction
03/08/24 12:35:58 PM
#2:


Cut em up
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wackyteen
03/08/24 12:37:28 PM
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never thought I'd see a fairly detailed breakdown of infant circumcision on gamefaqs but here we are

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ItsNotA2Mer
03/08/24 12:38:01 PM
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IdiotMachine posted...
complications with a foreskin later on in-life is a thing.

Good hygiene for the win.

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UT1999
03/08/24 12:38:44 PM
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wackyteen posted...
never thought I'd see a fairly detailed breakdown of infant circumcision on gamefaqs but here we are
isn't it done for mostly religious reasons? maybe almost entirely for this reason

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NeonOPPAl
03/08/24 12:39:38 PM
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I'm glad I got my dick hood cut. My shit feels good

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wackyteen
03/08/24 12:39:58 PM
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UT1999 posted...
isn't it done for mostly religious reasons? maybe almost entirely for this reason

I'm not even sure its religious reasoning for Americans nowadays. <_<

It's just the norm, now.

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Scardude
03/08/24 12:40:33 PM
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UT1999 posted...
isn't it done for mostly religious reasons? maybe almost entirely for this reason
I'm going to get it as medical reasons in my adult age.

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TendoDRM
03/08/24 12:41:06 PM
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NeonOPPAl posted...
I'm glad I got my dick hood cut. My shit feels good

You shouldn't be sticking your dick in your shit. That's unhygienic, circumcized or not.

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Scintillant
03/08/24 12:41:28 PM
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There are complications with all of our body parts, there's really no need to cut it off.

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IdiotMachine
03/08/24 12:42:13 PM
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Scardude posted...
I'm going to get it as medical reasons in my adult age.
This is exactly what I want to prevent for my baby boy, per the older OBGYNs advices

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ThunderTrain
03/08/24 12:44:02 PM
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End genital mutilation

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ClayGuida
03/08/24 12:45:39 PM
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How do Republicans feel about circumcision? Do they want them to wait until they're 18?

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ItsNotA2Mer
03/08/24 12:46:14 PM
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Scardude posted...
I'm going to get it as medical reasons in my adult age.

What are those medical reasons?

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IdiotMachine
03/08/24 12:47:14 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

My firstborn was a girl and she had severe tongue tie. On day 3 of her life, we went to an oral surgeon to get it corrected. Once we got into the room, which looked like any pediatrician room, the oral surgeon came in and asked for final approval. Once we approved, he took her, turned 180, brought her over to an examination table, opened a brand new knife out, opened her mouth, and just cut the tie! No creams, no shots, nothing. I was thinking what the fuck just happened. Our baby didnt even wake up, didnt cry, there was no blood in her mouth, and it was all over.

I later found out for tongue tie, if you do it later than a week or so after the babys life, its a lot more involved. This experience is making me believe the OBGYNs statement that there is no pain for a brand-new newborn.

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snae99
03/08/24 12:47:26 PM
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Completely unnecessary.

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pretzelcoatl
03/08/24 12:47:57 PM
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I'd say leave it and let him decide for himself, no real harm in waiting.

If he's self conscious about it, he can get it done later in life.
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NatsuSama
03/08/24 12:47:58 PM
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Do whatever you and your partner wants TC. There are non religious reasons to do it, and that's a discussion for you two.

I highly doubt your son is going to be devestated over whatever you choose.

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Nirvanas_Nox
03/08/24 12:48:27 PM
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I'd say let your son make that decision for himself.

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IdiotMachine
03/08/24 12:49:10 PM
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pretzelcoatl posted...
I'd say leave it and let him decide for himself, no real harm in waiting.
There's tons of harm in waiting.

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wackyteen
03/08/24 12:49:15 PM
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IdiotMachine posted...
My firstborn was a girl and she had severe tongue tie. On day 3 of her life, we went to an oral surgeon to get it corrected. Once we got into the room, which looked like any pediatrician room, the oral surgeon came in and asked for final approval. Once we approved, he took her, turned 180, brought her over to an examination table, opened a brand new knife out, opened her mouth, and just cut the tie! No creams, no shots, nothing. I was thinking what the fuck just happened. Our baby didnt even wake up, didnt cry, there was no blood in her mouth, and it was all over.

I later found out for tongue tie, if you do it later than a week or so after the babys life, its a lot more involved. This experience is making me believe the OBGYNs statement that there is no pain for a brand-new newborn.

That's fucking crazy. <_<

anyways, as someone who was cut without consent, I'd at least have liked the choice.

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Freddie_Mercury
03/08/24 12:49:36 PM
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"well as long as he doesn't react to getting part of his penis cut off it's okay"

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wackyteen
03/08/24 12:49:59 PM
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IdiotMachine posted...
There's tons of harm in waiting.
Potential harm.

There's a lot of potential danger in going out for a drive to get food.

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Scardude
03/08/24 12:51:07 PM
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ItsNotA2Mer posted...
What are those medical reasons?
Between my doctor and myself. Thanks for asking.

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GunmaN1905
03/08/24 12:51:30 PM
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Americans, smh.
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ItsNotA2Mer
03/08/24 12:52:30 PM
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Scardude posted...
Between my doctor and myself. Thanks for asking.

Hope it goes well for you.

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IdiotMachine
03/08/24 12:53:02 PM
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Freddie_Mercury posted...
"well as long as he doesn't react to getting part of his penis cut off it's okay"
lol.

So here's my thoughts:
1) Assume the fact that getting circumcision at day 2 of life = no pain is true (per OBGYN's statements that babies don't react).
2) If you need to get a circumcision later in life, the surgery is significantly more involved, and will have higher chances of complications.
3) If you don't have a foreskin, complications with foreskin issues go away, and thus you would never have to deal with Item #2 above.

So the question for me is- is it worth getting circumcision when it's easy to do to avoid complications with foreskins later in life?

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Rai_Jin
03/08/24 12:53:12 PM
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GunmaN1905
03/08/24 12:55:28 PM
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IdiotMachine posted...
So the question for me is- is it worth getting circumcision when it's easy to do to avoid complications with foreskins later in life?

There are no fucking complications unless you don't teach your kid how to wash himself properly, ffs.
Your bullshit American propaganda wants you to believe that every other man would have issues, while the more realistic number is like 1 in 50.

So yeah, if you want to avoid 2% chance of something bad potentially happening due to genetic disorder, go for it.

Might aswell take out his appendix right away and wisdom teeth as they start growing, just to make sure.

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IdiotMachine
03/08/24 12:56:45 PM
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IdiotMachine posted...
So the question for me is- is it worth getting circumcision when it's easy to do to avoid complications with foreskins later in life?
And to answer this question logically, I'd have to compare two sets of data- probability of complications due to circumcision at birth vs. probability of complications of having a foreskin. I have no sense of these likelihoods... as I mentioned, the older OBGYNs seem to believe circumcision is better, with the younger ones seeming to believe it's social preference.

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LightningThief
03/08/24 12:58:30 PM
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I can never find myself to see this as a real concerning issue.
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Scardude
03/08/24 12:58:48 PM
#33:


ItsNotA2Mer posted...
Hope it goes well for you.
Shall see. I'm not paying for the procedure and its covered by the province.
IdiotMachine posted...
This is exactly what I want to prevent for my baby boy, per the older OBGYNs advices
Honestly, I'm going for the procedure but until it happens. All I can say is that I don't look forward to it as an adult. Prior to needing it done, it didn't really impact my life in any way. So you are fine either way.

Something to consider. Recovery for an adult is 6 weeks to 6 months. 6 weeks to gym again and 6 months for full recovery around the area.

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pretzelcoatl
03/08/24 1:00:03 PM
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IdiotMachine posted...
There's tons of harm in waiting.
Sounds like you've made up your mind then. Why make this topic?
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gatorsPENSbucs
03/08/24 1:00:36 PM
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Yup

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Doe
03/08/24 1:01:01 PM
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Should be up to your son if he wants part of a major organ permanently removed once he has the mind to be able to consent.

When complications of a foreskin do come up the solution is generally circumcision anyway so I dont understand why youd do it to a baby before any problem presents.

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OrangeCrush980
03/08/24 1:02:08 PM
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Don't do it. It's genital mutilation.

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CSCA33
03/08/24 1:02:24 PM
#38:


IdiotMachine posted...
And to answer this question logically, I'd have to compare two sets of data- probability of complications due to circumcision at birth vs. probability of complications of having a foreskin. I have no sense of these likelihoods... as I mentioned, the older OBGYNs seem to believe circumcision is better, with the younger ones seeming to believe it's social preference.
Why are you not given any consideration to the harm done from performing this procedure?

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Compsognathus
03/08/24 1:05:26 PM
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I say don't. When your kid gets older, he can decide if he wants his dick cut or not. Yes, it might be more involved process then, but that's a small price to pay for actually providing your son body autonomy on what's effectively a cosmetic procedure.

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Zakawer3
03/08/24 1:05:45 PM
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If it's a boy, then sure, circumcise him if you want to, much like how the Jews (or most Americans) do it. Though alternatively, you could have him circumcised years after his birth, akin to how most Muslims do it.

Also, it's incredibly harmful to equate male circumcision with female genital mutilation. These two things are NOT comparable in the slightest, and I'm saying this as a circumcised man.

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VampireCoyote
03/08/24 1:06:48 PM
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Ask any non-baby human with a penis if they want some of it cut off

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Scardude
03/08/24 1:06:53 PM
#42:


Doe posted...
Should be up to your son if he wants part of a major organ permanently removed once he has the mind to be able to consent.

When complications of a foreskin do come up the solution is generally circumcision anyway so I dont understand why youd do it to a baby before any problem presents.
I'm trying to understand why you think extra skin is a major organ? This is a minor procedure and the skin in particular doesn't serve a major function to the human body for survival. Yes, skin is an organ. But the size of the area removed is small compared to the rest of the body.

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Doe
03/08/24 1:07:47 PM
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Scardude posted...
I'm trying to understand why you think extra skin is a major organ? This is a minor procedure and the skin in particular doesn't serve a major function to the human body for survival. Yes, skin is an organ. But the size of the area removed is small compared to the rest of the body.
The penis is a major organ.

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GunmaN1905
03/08/24 1:08:05 PM
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Scardude posted...
I'm trying to understand why you think extra skin is a major organ? This is a minor procedure and the skin in particular doesn't serve a major function to the human body for survival. Yes, skin is an organ. But the size of the area removed is small compared to the rest of the body.

You got to be trolling.
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CSCA33
03/08/24 1:08:21 PM
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Scardude posted...
I'm trying to understand why you think extra skin is a major organ? This is a minor procedure and the skin in particular doesn't serve a major function to the human body for survival. Yes, skin is an organ. But the size of the area removed is small compared to the rest of the body.
The number/amount of nerve endings removed is significant, this isnt like peeling off a finger nail

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kage_53
03/08/24 1:08:41 PM
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IdiotMachine posted...
This is exactly what I want to prevent for my baby boy, per the older OBGYNs advices
So why did you even make this topic if you are already convinced to circumcise your kid?
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GunmaN1905
03/08/24 1:09:33 PM
#47:


kage_53 posted...
So why did you even make this topic if you are already convinced to circumcise your kid?

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boomgetchopped3
03/08/24 1:09:44 PM
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They kind of made it seem like a non choice at the hospital. The nurse was just like we have to take him for circumcision, I assume were doing that right? Im circumcised so I just went along with it. I do question it in hindsight tho.

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Enclave
03/08/24 1:10:26 PM
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I like how they point out that complications are extremely unlikely while acting like the medical benefits are worth actually paying attention to when the odds of future complications from having foreskin are lower than the rate of complications from having the unnecessary cosmetic surgery done on an infant who cannot consent to body modifications surgery.

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Zikten
03/08/24 1:10:44 PM
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If it was so helpful, then more men would be cut. The vast majority of men on earth are uncut. It's mostly just Americans and Jewish people who do it. And Jewish people only do it for religious reasons. Americans do it because of an idiot in like the 1800s who somehow convinced everyone it would make boys not self pleasure themselves

Do not do it unless there is a medical reason. Hygiene is easy even uncut. I can confirm as an uncut 42 year old

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